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My self-summary
This needs to be said first:
- Cobak83 is my kickass husband.
- Talk to me about anything you want. Just don't try to get with me.
- I'm generally not willing to meet anyone in person. With only a handful of exceptions.
- No, but I swear I'm pretty friendly.

Other summarizable things:
- I originally joined OKCupid to make this subway etiquette test:
- I'm shy sometimes. A lot of the times.
- I got a lot older suddenly, and I'm not sure quite how it happened.

I am eccentric, ingenuous, and nerdy
What I’m doing with my life
An RN on the path to becoming a Dr. of the public health variety. I care about cancer, immigrants, languages, and generally any scenario where society screwing you over results in you dying when you didn't have to.
I’m really good at
succeeding in artificial worlds, such as school.
The first things people usually notice about me
They generally don't notice me at all.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Catcher in the Rye, The things they carried, A tree grows in brooklyn, his dark materials, girl's guide to hunting and fishing, love is a mix tape, handmaid's tale, Book Thief

Closer, Moulin Rouge, Breakfast at Tiffany's, 32 Short Films about Glenn Gould, Garden State, The Matrix trilogy, Bridge to Terabithia, Finding Neverland

TV: Battlestar Galactica, American Horror Story, Pushing Daisies, Firefly, Kid Nation, Terminator: Sarah Connor Chronicles, Skins UK, Orphan Black, Mr. Robot, cooking/baking shows, Brooklyn 99

RENT, musicals in general, Goo Goo Dolls, Better Than Ezra, Nickel Creek, Songs for a New World, Ben Folds, Ingrid Michaelson, Counting Crows, San Fermin

Almost everything, except bugs.
The six things I could never do without
"First world" things beyond Maslow priority things: Laptop, durable sneakers, warm clothing that doesn't induce static, rainbows, unicorns, and sparkles.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Universal healthcare.
On a typical Friday night I am
Not pretending to live glamorously on Instagram/Facebook. Taking naps or doing other enjoyable boring-people things at home :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I won't remember most things you say to me.
You should message me if
you want an internet friend.