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My self-summary
I've never been very good at describing myself... I can say that I'm usually lost in thought {Dreamer}. I'm a fairly reserved person {Stoic}, but I do enjoy a good party from time to time {Social} ... and I love a great party whenever I can find it {Butterfly}. I'm the kind of person who feels almost worthless if I can't help someone out {Co-Dependent}, especially those I care for {Co-Dependent}. Now, if I can just figure out how to help myself out {Co-Dependent} ... There's so much in this life to experience {Taste-Tester}, it's difficult to find the time and opportunity to do it all {Procrastinator}, though that doesn't mean I haven't tried, or won't try {Experimenter} ... and sometimes I just can't help myself {Easily Tempted} ... and sometimes, I don't even realize I need any help {Stubborn}

I am introspective, generous, and unique/weird
What I’m doing with my life
...is still trying to figure things out. I've tried on a number of hats, with some fitting better than others. I'm currently wearing my landscaping hat... it's a pretty good fit thus far. Still, the world of music is where my heart rests... That's why I dj karaoke, catch as many shows and concerts as possible, attend at least 2 or 3 festivals a year, and am a fixture at my favorite local open mic
I’m really good at
... organizing things for people (maybe not-quite-so-much for myself, though). I can get dangerously close to being obsessive-compulsive about order (even though I'm secretly a fan of chaos). I've been told by friends and strangers alike that I have a good ear for mixing music (basically, organizing sounds). I am an excellent listener (partially because I'm a quiet person). I was a bit of a math nerd in grade school...okay, I'm still a big ol' math geek (I have no doubt that I'll eventually become a math teacher).
The first things people usually notice about me
... tend to be my hair (because it's usually not it's natural color, and is a dreaded fro-hawk right now) and my smile. People have a tendency to remark on my mood, in fact, if they find me not smiling...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Ethical Slut; Polyamory; Bitten; TOM ROBBINS; DAN SIMMONS; EDGAR ALLAN POE; ROALD DAHL; JRR TOLKIEN; the HP series; NEIL GAIMAN; Harold and the Purple Crayon; Where the Wild Things Are; What Dreams May Come; Fight Club; A Series of Unfortunate Events; etc.

The Fifth Element; The Usual Suspects; What Dreams May Come, Fight Club; Neverwhere; Legend; the Goonies; Robin Hood: Men in Tights; The Die Hard Series; Stargate; Firefly; Weird Sience; Ferris Bueller's Day Off; Galaxy Quest; Kung Fu Hustle; etc.

good music ("genres" are only good for organizing your music)

potatoes, soybeans (not-so-much tofu), noodles, bacon...
Six things I could never do without
a challenge
a chance
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...my life in this universe. A thousand different questions are usually running through my mind. Sometimes they're all about money - how will I afford this, that, and the other. Sometimes they're all about time - will I be able to do whatever I need to in the time I have available. Sometimes they're all about relationships - who is a friend, who is an associate, who is... someone special...
On a typical Friday night I am
... hanging at a show and/or with some friends. Though, occasionally, Friday night becomes a Netflix night...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You would love to know
You should message me if
you can think and feel at the same time
(seriously, it can be tougher than walking and chewing gum...kind of like stumbling with style...)
The two of us