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My self-summary
First, let me say that this is the only dating site Iv'e been on and as of a year, I am new to the process, so bare with me as I stumble through this... My experience has taught me that life and love are always a challenge, and I embrace that as I have come to understand, over the years, that relationships show us so much about ourselves and what we need to learn along the way. I am at the place in my life where I am really mindful of the paths traveled and the experiences I've had. I've been taking inventory of my life, even to the point where I find myself going back to younger days, seeking forgiveness and quietly forgiving those who have, knowingly or not, influenced the course of my life. I am a loving and passionate individual, anyone who knows me will tell you that. I have no problem putting the needs of others in front of my own, it's the only way to love someone. I have slowed my life to listen to what I am supposed to hear, and what I have come to know is that the laughter of my children, grandchildren and loved ones is the greatest sound I know. Humor is a trait that others are drawn to in me, I don't tell jokes, I laugh at life, myself and maybe you, and would welcome you to do the same. One of my favorite things is riding my Harley on a sunny day. I don't like dishonesty or drama. I would like to share my life with some one who will except me as I am, as I will her, I have no need or reason to change someone. I am not controlling or jealous, I prefer to trust. I won't bring the baggage of others, that's not fair.
And to the right woman, I promise that I will love you as though it was my last breath on earth.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently working in the Investigation/Human Trafficking Intervention & Recovery and Executive Protection Industries. Iv'e had the honor to work along side the U.S. Navy Seals in 2012 and the Secret Service in 2012, 2013, 2014 and 2015. In many ways discovering and embracing the next chapter. Working on a new businesses called ammunitiondisposal.com. Trying to stay ahead of the economy. Spending time with my grandchildren.
I’m really good at
Laughing at myself and the world around me.
Listening and not making it about me.
Being there for others.
Fixing things (mechanical stuff).
Adapting to changes.
other stuff....
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm not sure about that, I have never thought about it. Maybe that I look a little rough around the edges, but let me assure you that my bad boy days are way behind me. Not shy, but not vying for attention either, but after I'm comfortable I'll show more...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books-James Patterson.
Movies-Action, Comedy, Romantic Comedy.
TV-Sons of Anarchy, Saturday Night Live.
Music-I have a mood for just about everything.
Food-Yes Please.
Six things I could never do without
The laughter of my Daughters & Grandchildren.
The memories of my life & loved ones.
Sense of humor.
The love of others.
My good friends Harley and Davidson
My cell phone, apparently.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Recently- What can I learn from the changes in my life. I am very mindful of the changes in friendships/relationships, the economy, and the needs of others and how to balance all and make sure my choices are the best possible. Other than that, a prayer from time to time...mostly for my loved ones but also to find love again...
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching TV at my place, working or working out from home or on occasion visiting with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Let me think about it... thought about it, and it's not so personal but I will say that I've been married twice and I am happy to say that I have a wonderful relationship with both of my ex's. They are fantastic women and they will always mean the world to me, and will always be family and apart of my life. I believe that loving someone, though it may take different forms than you intended, is something that stays with you forever and you should honor that with the best possible friendship you can offer when it changes. I have come to learn that just because you love someone, doesn't guarantee that it will last forever... and that the sadness and loneliness of that is survivable, and peace can be gained, especially if the other is able to find there path to happiness. Unconditional love grants us the grace to wish these things for the ones we have loved... and perhaps the 'letting go' and a 'bit of prayer' will bring us to the place where we are truly home.
You should message me if
You like to laugh, trust and feel close to someone with no pressure to change who you are and be someone your'e not.
The two of us