I'm not monogamous, I'm polyamorous (poly). It's meaning is different for everyone, so knowing me is important to understanding me, and the manner in which I manage my relationships. I express a lot of love, both platonic, as well as romantic and emotional. I tend towards long-term relationships, but I enjoy sharing casual intimacy with friends as well.
I have one amazing life partner of three years, and am happily transitioning out of another life partnership of eleven years. I also date and have other intimate friendships as well. I've always had better success developing intimacy with others in the real world, but have had some wonderful experiences meeting people here too. I write very few people here online. If I introduced myself to you, it's because I read your entire profile, and most of your Q&A, and I found you generally awesome and attractive and want to chat a little and possibly meet. Regardless of physical attraction, however, I never presume to decide what I will desire with a person beyond platonic friendship until they and I begin learning about one another. Personal chemistry is important to me, and I won't expect anything extraplatonic without it.
Communication, Conversation, philosophical discussion, and helping others cope with life's trials / counseling. Intimacy and affection, kissing and lovemaking.
Movies: Dances With Wolves, Braveheart, Fight Club, The Big Lebowski, Oh Brother Where Art Thou, Being John Malkovich, Boondock Saints, Kevin Smith, Secretary, Oh Brother Where Art Thou, What the Bleep, The Secret, Too many to list.
Music: Classic Rock, Blues, Soul, Funk, Mostly anything. The Beatles, Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, CCR, CSNY, Robert Cray, Buddy Miles, The Meters, Dr. John, Too many to list.
Food: Mostly paleolithic - lots of water, veggies and fruit - a little meat, nuts, eggs and goat-dairy - No cow dairy, no bread or wheat, no rice or other grains, no potatoes, no corn, no candy or refined sugars, no coffee or soda. I will eat some of these things, but in moderation.
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