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My self-summary
Polyamorous geek. Professional comic book editor. Wanderer. Quaker.

Occasionally mischievous, always friendly, and frequently distracted. Curious to a fault. I'm prone to cuddling, and will discuss anything at all with great enthusiasm and far too many words.
What I’m doing with my life
Scaling back my publishing work so I can travel more (preferably with company, hint hint).

I'm preparing to move back to Seoul for a few years, so I've been putting some time into learning Korean, and now I get ridiculously gleeful whenever I recognize words or understand cultural references.
I’m really good at
Words! I love sharing all the quirky things that make English fun, playing with words, and having conversations full of snark and banter and whimsical nonsense... and, regrettably, sometimes even puns.

My brain trends towards random intuitive leaps and collecting tidbits of information like some sort of demented trivia magpie. I see weird patterns and I don't judge, which makes me a good person to talk through problems with.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair. It's a perpetually unruly mass of auburn curls. Very Pre-Raphaelite. Yes, I realize the irony of using a photo with straight hair for my profile, but I really love that photo for how I felt when I took it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

I will read anything you put in front of me, but I mostly own fiction. Dead tree format, because it will survive being dropped in the tub. Except I have still never read THE SHEPHERD'S CROWN, because as long as I don't there will always be one more Discworld book left to read and I'm not ready to give that up yet.

All time favorite authors include Terry Pratchett (clearly) and Georgette Heyer. Also reading more modern stuff from Seanan McGuire and Kevin Hearne.

TV & Movies:

Leverage is my absolute favorite show. It's five seasons of heists and cons with sterling character development throughout.

Also liking Archer, Phineas & Ferb, Doctor Who, British comedies, and many but not all things by Joss Whedon. And I am giddy for Galavant, to the point where despite my ruined voice I will sing the entire damn thing unless you actively stop me from doing so.

I watched an obscene amount of Korean television this past year trying to get a feel for the language (probably several thousand hours of leaving it running in the background while I worked), and am now burned out on it.


I love food as an experience, it's one of my favorite adventures, because it almost always works out well. Except for 멍게, which is the worst thing I have ever put in my mouth and was a terrible, terrible decision.
The six things I could never do without
- My loved ones (friends and felines included)
- Freedom (both physical and in the form of choices and opportunities)
- The ability to write
- An internet connection
- Questions
- Stories
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Problem-solving, communication, and trying to sort out where do I want to go next.

Lately I'm spending a lot of my free time writing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Running a remote movie night with dear friends from all over the world, because that's the only time we could all overlap our schedules.

But on all the other nights I am interested in spending time with people. Going out or staying in doesn't matter, so long as there's good conversation and cuddles.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have virtually no filters. I speak to strangers as though we're the best of friends, confide whatever comes to mind, and am truly interested in whatever someone else wants to share. I don't much see a point in being reticent. However, being open isn't the same thing as being connected, that still takes time and mutuality.
You should message me if
You're clever and curious, with a twisted sense of humor. I believe in random questions and honest answers, so go ahead and ask something interesting.

Please DO NOT message me if you can't respect the difference between polyamorous and promiscuous. I am not interested in disposable relationships of any variety, and I don't ever sleep with people I'm not already emotionally bonded with.

I'm currently swamped with my upcoming move, and meeting new people right before I leave for the other side of the planet may not be good for either of us. I'll want to meet tons of new people after I've moved, but I don't really have the emotional energy to do so right now.