32Seoul, South Korea
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My self-summary
Polyamorous geek. Webtoon editor. Wanderer. Quaker.

Occasionally mischievous, always friendly, and frequently distracted. Curious to a fault. I'm prone to cuddling, and will discuss anything at all with great enthusiasm and far too many words.
What I’m doing with my life
Scaling back my publishing work so I can travel more (preferably with company, hint hint).

I've moved to Seoul for a few years so I can study Korean, and now I get ridiculously gleeful whenever I recognize words or understand cultural references.
I’m really good at
Words! I love sharing all the quirky things that make English fun, playing with words, and having conversations full of snark and banter and whimsical nonsense... and, regrettably, sometimes even puns.

My brain trends towards random intuitive leaps and collecting tidbits of information like some sort of demented trivia magpie. I see weird patterns and I don't judge, which makes me a good person to talk through problems with.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair. It's a perpetually unruly mass of auburn curls. Very Pre-Raphaelite. Yes, I realize the irony of using a photo with straight hair for my profile, but I really love that photo for how I felt when I took it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

I will read anything you put in front of me, but I mostly own fiction. Dead tree format, because it will survive being dropped in the tub. Except that it turns out that it's hard to move around the world dragging an entire library of dead trees, so I've reluctantly started reading ebooks. You know what really doesn't work in ebook format? A book with copious footnotes.

All time favorite authors include Terry Pratchett (clearly) and Georgette Heyer. Also reading more modern stuff from Seanan McGuire and Kevin Hearne.

TV & Movies:

Leverage is my absolute favorite show. It's five seasons of heists and cons with sterling character development throughout.

Also enjoy Archer, Phineas & Ferb, Doctor Who, British comedies, and many but not all things by Joss Whedon. And I am giddy for Galavant, to the point where despite my ruined voice (long story) I will sing the entire damn thing unless you actively stop me from doing so.

I watched an obscene amount of Korean television this past year trying to get a feel for the language (probably several thousand hours of leaving it running in the background while I worked), and am now burned out on it.


I love food as an experience, it's one of my favorite adventures, because it almost always works out well. Except for 멍게, which is the worst thing I have ever put in my mouth and was a terrible, terrible decision.
Six things I could never do without
- My loved ones (friends and felines included)
- Freedom (both physical and in the form of choices and opportunities)
- The ability to write
- An internet connection
- Questions
- Stories
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Problem-solving, communication, and trying to sort out where do I want to go next.

Lately I'm spending a lot of my free time writing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Interested in spending time with people. Going out or staying in doesn't matter, so long as there's good conversation and cuddles. Actually, this is true of every night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have virtually no filters. I speak to strangers as though we're the best of friends, confide whatever comes to mind, and am truly interested in whatever someone else wants to share. I don't much see a point in being reticent. However, being open isn't the same thing as being connected, that still takes time and mutuality.
You should message me if
You're clever and curious, with a twisted sense of humor. I believe in random questions and honest answers, so go ahead and ask something interesting.

Please DO NOT message me if you aren't looking for someone to keep. I am polyamorous, but I am not interested in disposable relationships of any variety. I want sparkly, fizzy dating that evolves into profound, enduring relationships with people it feels good to share my life with. If sex is ALL you're seeking, look elsewhere, or we'll both end up disappointed.
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