26 Carrboro, United States
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My self-summary
I used to think I was super good at selling myself in dating profiles.
Now I am less sure.

I am friendly and gentle and am told that I am quite grounding.
I want to hear about your day. I want to see pictures of your pet(s). I want you to tell me dumb, punny jokes and I'll say that I hate it but I'll genuinely laugh every time.

Sensitive, maybe to a fault.
Introverted. Anxious.
A good friend to have in your emotional/mental health corner.

Successful women make me really emotional.

I like to be outside when it's warm. I'm always going to want to meet for drinks or coffee, even when* I partake in neither.

If I think you're cute, I'm going to tell you one million times.

(* I fall in and out of partaking in alcohol and caffeine, on a daily basis.)
What I’m doing with my life
Working a lot.
Sleeping when I'm not working.

Spending time with my pets when it's cold, and practicing my photosynthesis skills when it's warm.
I’m really good at
Being quiet.
Accidentally burning myself.
Starting art projects, but not finishing.
Forgetting people's names.
Collecting owl things.
Loving every cat I come in contact with.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair.
The size of my eyes.

My generally calming nature, apparently.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Lovers Dictionary, Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs, Rent Girl, Valencia, Let's Explore Diabetes With Owls, Baby, Remember My Name: An Anthology of New Queer Girl's Writing, Lucky, I Was Told There'd Be Cake, How Did You Get This Number?, Would You Still Love Me If I Wet The Bed?, Running With Scissors, Holiday's On Ice, StarGirl, Every Day, Sharp Objects, Literary Sexts, Miss Peregrine's Home For Peculiar Children

Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium, Wall-E, Black Swan, Deadpool, Hard Candy, Zombieland, Remember Me, Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog, Ghostbusters, Sunshine Cleaning, The Lovely Bones, (500)Days of Summer, God Bless America, Daydream Nation, Cabin in the Woods, The Brass Teapot, The Other Woman

Grey's Anatomy, Parks and Rec, Parenthood, Orphan Black, New Girl, Gotham, Dexter, Ugly Betty, Futurama

Stars, Metric, The XX, Dessa, Regina Spektor, Ingrid Michaelson, Queen, Kimya Dawson, Jaymay, Odesza, Kate Nash, Heathers, alt-J, La Roux, The Pierces, Tegan and Sara, The Postal Service, The Blow, Milo Greene, Jenny Owen Youngs, Owl City, Julia Nunes, Florence + The Machine, Rilo Kiley, The Weepies, Sara Bareilles, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Joan Jett, Bella Ruse, Glass Animals, Mountain Man, The Pixies, The Rebel Light, Alessia Cara, Allison Weiss

Indian, Irish, Japanese, Thai, Italian, American
The six things I could never do without
Intersectional, fully inclusive feminism.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Who got to decide what words mean what and how to spell them and their pronunciation? What does the inside of every other person's head sound like? What do animals think of humans? Why isn't childlike wonderment encouraged? With the thus far proven size of the universe, just outside of our milky way, how in the world does anyone believe we on earth are all there is?
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching something, or reading something, or sleeping early.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I cry at commercials and those happy animal/family/human decency videos everyone shares on fb.
You should message me if
You need someone to talk to.
Or you want to get donuts.
Or you have a fun joke that no one you know will appreciate.

Or if you just want to.