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My self-summary
So, time to update!

Hi! I'm Stephen. I'm 26 years old, I work in security and working on getting back in school. I have a six year old daughter that lives with her mother. I try to keep my love life seperate, so if anything comes from this site, chances are you won't meet her. I really have to trust you in order for you to meet her, and trust doesn't come easy these days. Though I do carry my lantern, because "I'm looking for an honest (wo)man".

I'm currently in a polyamorous relationship with someone I /very/ attached to. I prefer poly relationships, but that's not to say if you are very special I wouldn't concider monogamy.

I am terribly introverted. If I like you I could be around you 98% of my free time, but I don't like guests, I don't like groups, and I don't like get-togethers. I said it three times three different ways, I can't express it any other way. I prefer one on one company, and don't mind silence. This isn't to say I'm unable to be around people. I tend to get along with everyone, and I keep my opinions to myself, unless I want to have fun, and don't care if I upset someone. My work is solitary work, so I get a lot of introvert time there.

My biggest weakness is my apathy. I honestly don't give a fuck. The entire time I've had this account I've never written a proper bio, because I didn't /feel/ like it. I have a terrible habit of brushing things that might seem important to people, because I don't really care about them. Holidays are a good example. My cynicism and nihilistic point of views stems from that, I think.....

But that's me in a nutshell. Consult my questions, or better yet, me, if you have any questions!
What I’m doing with my life
A whole bunch in teeny increments!

I'm currently working in security, 45 hours condensed Fri.-Mon. in the evening/nighttime. That gives me a /lot/ of free time, that I am currently filling with reading. Jeeeesus, I haven't read this much since high school, but frankly, I love it.

I am currently trying to pay off my student loans so I can continue with my education. I'm trying to achieve a bachelor's in philosophy and work my way up to a specific philosophy doctorate. Who knows at this point what that will be, lol. Like I said, teeny increments.

I spend my free time usually on the internet, listening to music or NPR. I enjoy television shows and movies a bit too much, so I usually only do that as my physical social outlet to prevent me from watching too much. Not that the internet is too much better, is it? Lol. I also cycle, and only drive when it's cold, and commuting.
I’m really good at
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The first things people usually notice about me
I honestly don't know. I wouldn't mind being told, I just never ask.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Waaaaaay too many to list, so I'll just list genres, and what I've recently been into.

Books: Sci fi, Fantasy, Non-Fiction. I am currently reading the Ender Series, and am on the third, Xenocide. Great series, but it's getting redundant. Not to mention the author is a homophobic asshole. But I try to judge an artist by their art, not their person.

Film: Japanese films, Sci-Fi, Fantasy, Slice of Life, Comedy, Anime, Specific Horror. I finally got around to watching Stranger Things. I really really really really didn't want to like it. But I love Stephen King, and it had to have been inspired by him.

Music: hip hop and it's many many varients, rock, classical, and very little country. TMBG is and always will be on top of that list though. I have been listening to a lot of Blues Traveler and Blind Melon lately, cuz those dudes have so much emotion in their voice it's fucking crazy.

Food: delicatessen-esq sandwichs but the only bread I eat is rhy or pumpernickel, Japanese, Chinese, Indian, and good ol' burgers and potatoes. I've been really craving a pastrami on rye from Shapiro's lately....
The six things I could never do without
my phone
my ability to think (if I ever lose my mind, I hope death quickly follows)
I'm trying to cut back though.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Shit, you name it? Thinking is kinda what I do. Toss me an idea, I'll ponder, and tell you what I think about it.

Seriously. Do it. It's the quickest way to my heart.
But I will be brutally honest.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working. Guaranteed. Tuesday is my Friday, and I am typically I will be home or running errends. If you've made it this far in my lrofile, you'd have realized by now I'm a boring person.
You should message me if
... you want to! I'm trying to start sending messages first, so don't be shy.

...you are interested in a non-monogamous relationship, and think we'd click.

...you think I'm rad, and wanna chat. I don't care where you live if you wanna be my friend.

...you read my "I spend a lot of time thinking about" response and you want to acquiesce to my request.