This is always the tough part, I suppose that is why so many say they are no good at it.
Overall I am a pretty easy going and generally positive person. I try not to worry about the things I can't change and focus on where I have the most effect. When I feel like things are not going well I realize I have it better than most. I have a good career. Own my house. My own car. Have a small but good circle of friends and family that care for me. That right there is enough to put me in a pretty good place. I often say I don't want for anything I need, only things I would like.
All that said I would like to find someone to welcome into my life. It would probably be best if they have a fondness for geeks, even better if they are a bit of one themselves. It may also work out well if you know how to be assertive at least some of the time. I don't really ask for a lot and I can find the good in most people. I may be a bias source but if you ask me I am a pretty great guy to know.
A Song of Ice and Fire (A Game of Thrones), Hitchhikers Guide, Enders Game, and most Sci-fi and fantasy books.
Dr. Strangelove, Highlander, Tombstone, Pulp Fiction, Lord of the Rings, Star Wars, and Sci-fi / action generally.
Star Trek, Battlestar Galactica, How I Met Your Mother, Big Bang Theory, Survivor, Star Gate, Game of Thrones, Dexter, Breaking Bad
Puscifer, Cake, The Killers, and alternative/modern rock and 90's music. Anything but rap and country in most cases.
Steak, Crab, Pizza, and good beer. Sadly most don't fit my diet well.