I work to be who I prefer myself to be, instead of emotionally reacting to my environment. I work on myself, but I don't think we can change someone else. And shouldn't try.
Many specific shallow things about other people used to be important to me. Now instead, what's important is how I feel about them.
I like to go outdoors, preferably out of town for the weekends. I like camping biking hiking climbing sailing cooking animals. Traveling. Festivals. Gardening.
I get along with most people and have fun in most situations.
I am content with my career and income.
traveling to Thailand
answering important yet unasked questions
changing what I think based on new information
admitting I'm wrong
making adventres happen, whether it's going out for the night or a week
books: Dune, Geek Love, Barbara Kingsolver
Lana del Rey, dubstep, CocoRosie, the Knife, Krisna Das, Nick Cave
These days I am reading about biological origins of consciousness and emotions.
indoor plumbing, bonus for heated!
And I don't mean wondering what i want, i KNOW what i want.
I mean how to get it!
(but, it's not from age, its from an injury! lol)
i think it's growing back