65West Hempstead, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a really nice person who is friendly to many people, but ultimately devoted and loyal to the person I'm attracted to and feel most comfortable with. I am not high maintenance at all, I'm independent, but can let you lead- as long as you're not controlling. I'm smart, realistic, practical, opinionated but funny. I'm down to earth so you don't need to pompously impress me. If our values mesh, all the better.

I am politically aware and my ideology is most in tune with being a Conservative Republican and I watch FOX and believe it is fair and balanced. I know that it is rare for a New Yorker with a Jewish heritage (not religious). Don't mistake me for a liberal's view of what a Conservative is. I just believe in lower taxes, limited gov't, personal responsibility,morality and ethics,individualism rather than racial & religious agendas to divide, against waste in gov't spending, control of our borders, focusing on the criminal and mental health as the problem, not the guns and just common sense policies which we have ridiculously gone away from and are destroying our country.

If you are into the astrology thing (which is either just fun or has some merit), I am Aries with a Libra ascendant. So the adventurous impulsive Aries spirit is tempered by the Libra quest for balance, justice and love of beauty in all things. I'm a combo of both and balance IS how I live (no extremes either way).

I am most myself in jeans, but can glam up for an occasion in classic style (you won't be embarrassed). I'm generally regarded as attractive and younger than my age, petite & curvy, no- that is not a term for fat or heavy- I have curves where they should be.

I need to feel chemistry, and blue,green eyes/ salt and pepper hair and a decent build have made me look twice. But- there are attractive warm brown eyes (like mine) as well. Throw in a nice smile and we may have something here. If you are comfortable with tools and handy, that's a big plus I've always admired.Neat beards or mustache ok, but that Woodstock hippie thing is kind of old. Being dependable, responsible and organized are very highly regarded. Proper grammar and spelling is a plus- sorry, "Don't no nobody" is a turn-off.

Please be a gentleman- if you're prone to making lewd and creepy remarks upon first introduction or meeting, skip me. I 'm looking for something more respectful than a sexual encounter. Just setting parameters so there are no misunderstandings.

My needs are pretty simple- someone I can connect with romantically as a companion, friend and partner. We don't have to do everything together (I have friends for that) but shared times and conversation together would be nice. I'm not desperately looking for anyone, so there is no sense of urgency to find just anyone- it will happen.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm keeping busy and content in all areas of my life and being grateful for the smallest of good things I've been blessed with.
I’m really good at
just being myself which is responsible, practical, independent, and loyal. Totally happy with who I am as a person. I love good conversation, a sense of humor and an easy going but confident person to share it with.
The first things people usually notice about me
Long curly blonde hair, easy smile and warm eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books-Love reading anything worthwhile on any topic- fiction, non-fiction, biographies, history. Love the feel of being in a library surrounded by books and knowledge. I'm not a snob who can rattle off a list to impress anyone. Last book read was The Shack which was understood if you had a knowledge of the metaphysical world (also an interest). Joined a monthly book club which introduces me to books I might not have read.

Movies and shows- drama, comedy, musicals, romance, classics-anything well-written or entertaining. Phantom of the Opera is a favorite. Current movies aren't too good- just cursing, nude women, car crashes and slim story line.

Music- not a groupie or lover of any one kind or artist. Like all except rap (oh wait- I do like some Eminem songs). All depends on the mood I'm in at the time- prefer lite FM but top 40, classic & progressive rock, smooth jazz, show tunes are good too. I do love all Barry Manilow songs and see him in concert- very humble & underrated composer, singer, & pianist.

Food- Generally, most foods but I am very picky about how it is prepared. Prefer grilled or baked over fried foods. No Mexican or Indian food- I know, I'm not trendy, but I can not stand the smell or taste of those wicked spices- and hold the garlic if possible (yes, it is in almost everything, but it does alter the breath). With that said, I do like Italian food, American, French, Chinese, etc. Love anything with lemon or balsamic vinegar. I was brought up eating out a lot but I can put a dinner on the table and I'm not opposed to food at a diner.
Six things I could never do without
My family/friends/pet(s), Unconditional Love (hugs/kisses), Natural beautiful surroundings, gentle breezes, tea or decaf coffee while reading or watching something, something to do (whether a big project or running an errand)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to resolve any issue or problem. I'm resourceful and pro-active in getting things done efficiently and beneficially for myself, family and friends.
On a typical Friday night I am
Dining out, seeing a movie/show or playing Bingo with friends
Catching up with paperwork or errands at home, watching tv are fine too
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The hair color isn't the natural one I was born with, but the curls are.
You should message me if
my profile interests you as to what type of person I am (details can be elaborated on later);
If you come somewhat close to what I described (you don't come made to order, but it gives you an idea);
you are not looking for a mother figure (too young) or being my father figure (too old);
you would like to converse and see where it leads
The two of us