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My self-summary
Rewriting here-think I'll just do bullet points this time:
-Not interested in anyone using mind altering medication, recreational drug users, or people who drink more than socially.
-I have children.
-I never wear shoes unless absolutely needed.
-I grow my own medicine and create plant medicine.
-I don't have a conventional job.
-I'm currently binge watching STNG. If you have to ask, I'm not that gal for you.
-I love to cook and am very health conscious. I do not eat any processed foods.
-My dream is to live in WNC in the mountains, have a homestead and run a holistic retreat center.

I am looking for someone to spend time with in various capacities. Best if you meet these requirements:
~Openminded about spirituality/religion
~Interested in or at least willing to learn about alternative medicine (I'm an herbalist)
~Not racist, homophobic, misogynist.
~Wanting to smash the patriarchy.
~Not extreme either right or left politically. I have my own menagerie of political beliefs-some of them are conflicted. I know. I'm weird.
~Have an awesome taste in music. Ex. Leonard Cohen, Nick Cave, Elephant Revival, Nahko and Medicine for the People, Paul Simon, Rev. Horton Heat.
~Not revolve your life around sportsing.

I'm not at the point where I want to settle down again, but I am open to a relationship where that may be down the road. I'm into my space and my way of living and not into compromising right now :) I know that sounds totally snotty, but I have been there and compromised too much of myself. This is embodies my thoughts on that pretty succinctly:
What I’m doing with my life
Right now all I'm doing is running my business and schooling my kids. And trying to find time to sleep.
I’m really good at
Listening, giving advice and connecting people. I also create spreadsheets and budgets like it's my job. It isn't.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm tall and tend to wear lots of eccentric jewelry. Think crystals and stones. Yeah, I'm that girl.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: mostly spiritual, empowering, and plant spirit medicine based. Fiction: Tom Robbins. "I believe in everything, nothing is sacred. I believe in nothing, everything is sacred."
Movies/TV: I have a pretty decent range of interests. Sci/Fi to cheesy dramas to comedies. I haven't watched anything new in years, though. Like I said earlier-currently binging on STNG.
Music: Everything from outlaw country to world beats, to 90s hip hop, grunge, alternative, bluegrass...all the things.
Food: I love food. But real food. Nothing from a box or that has a list of ingredients. I've become a pretty decent cook because of this.
Six things I could never do without
Music, rain, thunder, plants, food, atmosphere.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to make my business self sustaining in a way that I don't have to work 12+hours a day :)
And budgets. Always budgets.
On a typical Friday night I am
This is where I tell you how boring I am, right? I seriously haven't done anything exciting on a Friday night in a looooong time. Ideally, I'd love to go eat some amazing food and listen to live music - not at a huge arena, but a small club or bar and drink craft beer-usually a stout or porter is my preference.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm clumsy. Seriously-I trip over my pants. When I'm wearing them. I run into doorways. It's a real problem.
You should message me if
You are passionate about your life, have drive, love great music, have a sense of humor, and are motivated to constantly better yourself. I seriously don't care if you make a lot of money. But I do care if you have zero desire to live the life you want. Unless the life you want is being unemployed on your mom's couch. Then, I'm sure there is someone else that is better suited for you. :)
The two of us