Very affectionate, tender guy here, major cuddler, drug-free, don't drink (social drinkers are okay by me but I don't go to bars for fun), disease-free and seeking the same. I am looking for a possible (read: possible) LTR that begins as friends first. Definitely looking to date first and want to take pleasure in getting to know you. You can't will love to happen like some instant microwave treat (reality can be so irritating). Believe me, I've tried.
Short of instantaneous love-everlasting, I am looking for a nice, respectful guy to be friends with, have fun with, go to the movies with (hold hands?), etc. I am no angel. But I try to be a good boy :)
I work out with a trainer 2x a week and I try to eat organic as much as possible. I'm enjoying living healthier.
I love my Manhattan life and my independence. Read: I do not dream of one day co-habitating with someone in the suburbs or adopting kids. But I also want to make room for a special someone to share good times with.
I am affectionate, irreverent, and playful
movies: john waters, trey parker & matt stone, woody allen, tim burton, david cronenberg, russ meyer, todd solondz, stanley kubrick. i think the exorcist is simultaneously the scariest and funniest movie ever made (no, i am not especially into the occult). i love a good psychological horror-thriller (not fear-of-dismemberment horror) and a good comedy.
music: punk/alternative mostly, like morrissey/smiths/siouxsie/70s bowie/buzzcocks/costello/devo/the jam/the pretenders/kate bush/tori amos/blondie/hole/nirvana/70s queen and other groovy tunes.
food: indian, mexican, thai, sashimi
my iMac (well now it's an Macbook Air),