64Sebastopol, United States
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My self-summary
I am single. I was married, and have now divorced for a long time and find that it is time for me three more intentional about finding my life partner.

I love camping and hiking outdoors, and spending time in hot springs places, like harbin...I like dancing, singing...and, of course, the occasional karoake.

I am into healthy lifestyle and I do not drink at all. It's not a problem if you drink as long as it is not a daily thing.

I do yoga, meditate somewhat regularly, and enjoy doing personal growth workshops, traveling, having adventures and deep conversations. I am somewhat high functioning, and fairly well educated, I like to think of myself as a good listener (except when I am not) and I pretty grounded (Taurus).

I have a good sense of humor and try not to take myself too seriously... I have a strong commitment to make a difference in my community...and the world.
I am extroverted and enjoy being with people...just not all the time.

I have some of the intensity of a former New Yorker, but the compassion and open-mindedness of my west coast part (and the 35 years of self-development workshops).
I am looking to find someone who would like to be in a loving committed partnership (not polyamory) and a man who wants to grow spiritually and emotionally together. I'd like to meet a good man who is honest and authentic, intelligent, spiritual, adventurous, emotionally available, and has a good sense of humor. (No serious Christians- sorry).

I am looking for a long-term serious relationship, whatever that means. Hopefully it means having an enjoyable, pleasurable, intimate, sexual and sensual, friendship and romance, and a mutual desire to make a contribution to the planet.

It's not so important where you live, as are what your values are and what you're committed to with your life. (My values are spirituality, contribution, love, community, fun, and empowerment).

I have done many kinds of personal and spiritual development over the years, and it is has given me a lot of tools that sometimes I even remember to use. I'm am looking for someone who wants a conscious relationship and has some idea what that means.
What I’m doing with my life
I have my own business working with visionary entrepreneurs as a business coach/consultant. I put on workshop and small group coaching programs.
I’m really good at
Listening, facilitating, supporting people, communicating complex things, kissing, hugging, dancing, coaching, teaching, comedy, emceeing, laughing, and making other people laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
my eyes, my laugh
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: gangaji, Abraham Hicks, the Power of Now, Notes to Myself, the Soul of Money, Loving What Is (by Byron Katie), Ishmael, How to Think Like Einstein, When Things Fall Apart (Pema Chodron), Lee Childs, Michael Brown (The Presence Process),

Music - blues, classic rock, jazz, world beat, reggae, funk. Allman brothers, theivey Corp, michael franti.

Movies: Avatar, the Strange Case of Benjamin Buttons, Shawshank Redemption, many more that I can't remember

TV: Grey's Anatomy, Blindspot, This is Us, the Good Wife, Notorious, leverage, blue bloods

Food: Thai, sushi, mainly chicken or fish, BBQ chicken, mexican, chocolate anything, hawaiian potato chips, cashews
Six things I could never do without
family and friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to not spend a lot of time thinking, how to be able to live part time in thailand, how to get to get to bed earlier, how to have more fun...
On a typical Friday night I am
having dinner with friends, or watching a movie
or at a social event, dancing
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am the oldest of nine kids
You should message me if
You are someone who is a good communicator, evolved, a decent listener, adventurous, open-minded, spiritual, have a good sense of humor, don't take yourself too seriously.

Money is not a struggle for you, meaning that you have enough to live on and you are taking good care of yourself. You enjoy having an authentic conversation with an honest woman.

You don't smoke and don't drink very often, and you are single (not married, separated, or just widowed, polyamory or wanting casual sex)...

You know what mantra, tantra, and kirtan are, and you have practiced them even a little bit 😊
The two of us