The first thing you should know about me to avoid miscommunication and issues in the future is that I rent my grandparent's basement. I am financially and socially independent, but with my grandfather's deteriorating condition, they need help around the house and I like to be nearby to help them out.
The second thing you need to know is that I am kinky, and very much so. If you don't have an interest in more than just a vanilla relationship, then I don't think we will be very compatible.
Thirdly, I am polyamorous, so don't expect to be the only lady in my life, whether you become a primary or secondary relationship depends on how well we mesh and our overall relationship. I do have a Primary, we have been together for around 2 years now and she lives with me. She knows I have an Okcupid account and would have to meet anyone I intended of having a relationship with.
I am a relatively optimistic person, and have a number of interests and hobbies including computers, rope and a burgeoning interest in photography. I consider myself to be very intelligent and can be introverted at times. Don't mistake this for shyness, I am very open and communicative, but sometimes prefer to listen to a conversation rather than partake in it.
I have recently made a career change in my life and am starting over as a Millwright, it is a contract based career so when I am working, it is heavy overtime with few days off, but when I am off work I have plenty of free time. It's a good balance that I am enjoying more and more as it allows me a great degree of freedom as far as my social and vacation time goes.
I identify as heteroflexible, as I do not have issues involving males into my play, but I am not experienced enough in it to know whether to consider myself bisexual at this time or not. I do know that I would not consider my relationship with another man to be a primary relationship in my life as the emotional attachment could never be as strong as with a woman. I am very much attracted to the feminine.
As I have said before, I am also starting my career as a Millwright, and though I am several years from a journeyman's ticket, I am enjoying this career thus far.
Movies: The Big Lebowski, The Goonies, Gone in 60 Seconds, Fear and Lothing in Las Vegas.
TV Shows: Family Guy, South Park, Dr Who. I don't watch much TV.
Music: Varied from Heavy Metal to Classical and some Hip Hop and Techno. Favourites include Eminem, Metric, Killswitch Engage and several of Beethoven's symphonies.
Food: I have an open palate, but can not live the life of a vegetarian as I love bacon and a good steak too much to give up on that. I tend to avoid a lot of breads in my diet when I can.
You should also message me if you have a geeky side and want to find a fellow geek to talk with or watch Dr Who with or something.