ekdoug
36 Norfolk, United States
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My self-summary
So I like to talk and listen and smile. I try to diffuse uncomfortable situations with wit, sarcasm and humor. I don't think about relationships in conventional terms, meaning I don't really think about my future in terms of relationships. I make really rash life decisions. I get along with almost everyone. I'm a bubbly introvert who overcommunicates and asks a million questions.

I ramble. A lot. I say fuck or frak or frug. A lot. I talk about sex and relationships and am endlessly fascinated by the human mind. I read too many blogs to name and may be a podcast junkie. I often don't capitalize but I know what needs to be capitalized. Fuck you, society. I'll capitalize if I want. I'm a lame rule breaker.

I am restless and genuine and geeky and happy and fucked all at once. Kathleen Hanna and Zooey Deschanel are my birth parents.
What I’m doing with my life
Nerdy shit like trying to inspire humanity. Wandering aimlessly and wonderously through cityscapes.
I’m really good at
Laughing (at inappropriate times), overanalyzing everyone and everything, rationalizing my behavior, crying on cue, bantering, sleeping, car dancing, being far too honest, switching conversation topics without a tangible thread, irl emojis.
The first things people usually notice about me
my likeliness to loud laugh and willingness to do a crane kick in the middle of a parking garage. Or serenade whomever I'm with like we're living in a disney movie.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
movies: Little Miss Sunshine, Inception, Wet Hot American Summer, Serenity, Beetlejuice, Igby Goes Down, The Ten, Aliens. John Hughes and Kevin Smith are my dudes

music: anything from the Head and the Heart, the Smiths, Costello, Descendents, Potty Mouth, Camera Obscura, Tigers Jaw, Lemuria, Rhianna, PBC, Decemberists, Otis, Japandroids, Bombay Bicycle Club, Knapsack, Jealous Sound, NMH, Mos Def, Sam Cooke, Jawbreaker, Mr Gnome, Aretha, Lady of Rage, Rvivr, Elliott Smith, Nick Drake, Binkini Kill, Simon & Garfunkel, Bright Eyes, Braid, American Football, Waxahatchee, Haim, Avett Bros, Los Campesinos, Rilo Kiley, Ovlov, Nick Cave, Wolf Parade, Ida Maria, Kate Nash, Frank Turner, Iron Chic...and you already stopped reading.

tv: Party Down, Sherlock, Ladies Man, Dexter, Firefly, AD, Portlandia, IT Crowd, Parks and Rec, Buffy, Supernatural, Daria, Freaks and Geeks, the Walking Dead, BSG

books: Eating the Dinosaur, the Buddha of Suburbia, Harry Potter, Slaughterhouse Five, Jemima J, Chew, Quantum, Animal Farm, Devil in the White City, Middlesex, Oscar Wilde is the jammiest.

I love food: cooking, eating, noms are a must
The six things I could never do without
a camera, pain inducing laughter, live music, converse, nail polish, and my phone. I'm addicted.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Humanity. Connectivity. Evolution. Music. Relationships. Sex. Life. Societal expectations vs reality. Living vs Existing. Music. Humor. How badly I want to see the following lineup: Sasheer Zamata, Patton Oswalt, Louis CK, Katie Crown, and Anthony Jeselnik.
How the only things that make my knees weak are good records and city lights.
On a typical Friday night I am
Going to shows, roaming, watching movies, cooking, reading, writing, redecorating, learning how to sew or speak Japanese or brushing up on my piano skills.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I troll okc for new jams and reads. Thanks, okc-ers, for all the rad recs.
You should message me if
If you know who you are and what you want. If you can handle when I go on feminist rants after reading "y the last man," make you wander down dark alleys and into caves, or philosophize about life idealistically.

If you can make me laugh. A good, snort-filled laugh. Yup, that happens.
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