I'm a single Dad to the sweetest 9 year old boy in the world. We live in Venice half a block from the beach.
Sharing time with my son is number one for me since he'll be out on his own with his buds in a few more years.
I love being outdoors. I run and bike on the beach, hike, skate, climb, surf (beginner), practice yoga and a really cool martial art. I'm a bit of a homebody. I actually enjoy cleaning except for folding and putting away laundry. Who does that?!
I talk to clients all day, so when I am done for the day I can be quiet and more of an observer. I'm an extroverted introvert;)
My son is a gymnist. He skates and is learning guitar and other instruments. We go camping whenever possible..Yosemite, Big Sur, Joshua Tree, Sequoia
I am a hairdresser by trade so I may stare at your hair but I am not judging..promise.
I am also working on a kids clothing line which I hope to transition toward being my main gig. I can talk about clothing for hours.
I am obsessed with music, books, film, art and pop culture, as you can see from my extensive lists.. If you aren't into all of that stuff--totally ok.
I play different instruments and sing uncontrollably. My son and I have a goth rock group.
I grew up in San Francisco in the inner Richmond/Haight Ashbury area. I have three sisters in the bay area, so we drive up there a lot.
I'm vegetarian. I haven't committed to vegan yet due to my hopeless cheese addiction. I love to cook and some people say i am not bad! We are at the farmers market every week. I stir fry a lot. Coconut oil. Any recommendations on seasoning vegetables?
This is kind of personal but I think transparency is warranted...
My son's Mom passed when he was a year old. It was devestating and a very difficult transition. It's been over 8 years and we are happy, and do just f.i.n.e. I have grown so much from this experience..
I do have help, his Nana lives close by and loves spending time with him.
I'm hoping to meet inspired, interesting people to hang out and create with. Friends snd other parents are always good.
As far as what i'm looking for in a relationship.. Someone with big heart, tough, funny, likes my dark, dry humor, has a wild imagination, who lives in gratitude and appreciation for what she has, lives in the present, embraces the unknown, is passionate and creative in her work, lives to help others, and the planet and all it's creatures, *communicates well, tries to not harbor resentments as much as possible, is introspective, shares interests, is curious like a kitten, reads!!! , likes the rosebowl, flea markets, antiques, records etc., relatively similar taste in music would be cool, loves animals, and kids! I am definitely open to having another but if the person I fall in love with can't do it, that is ok with me:)✨
Beatles, Stones, TheCURE, Zombies, VelvetUnderground, LouReed, Iggy Pop, TheStooges, NeilYoung, TheJesusAndMaryChain, TheReplacements, HarryNilsson, BigStar, RoyOrbison, FleetwoodMac, GillianWelch, TownsVanZandt, Donovan, Kinks, PublicEnemy, RobertJohnson, FrancoiseHardy, Jaques Dutronc, France Gall, MuddyWaters, Ramones, JohnnyThunders, Leadbelly, LemonTwigs, ModernLovers, ChambersBrothers, Dylan, Bowie, T-Rex, Pulp, DeadCanDance, LisaGerard, TommyJames&Shondells, MichaelJackson, TheSeeds, LeonardCohen, BertJansch, JoeMeek, TameImpala, PatsyCline, LindaRondstadt, HankWilliams, SamCooke, Otis, EverlyBrothers, AlGreen, Temptations, EttaJames, BillieHoliday, NinaHagen, NinaSimone, DollyParton, Carpenters, BuddyHolly, KimFowley, BlindWillieMcTell, SydBarrett, Jimi, Love, WalkerBrothers, FrankiValli, AliceCooper, Troggs, Badfinger, Rasberries, Hall&Oats, NewYorkDolls, FlaminGroovies, Spacemen3, Sabbath, LedZeppelin, Queen, LittleDragon, TerryRiley, TheFall, CrystalCastles, DepecheMode, Cold Cave, SkinnyPuppy, SistersOfMercy, Tool, FaithNoMore, Fugazi, WhiteFence, TheOhSees, AnimalCollective, GuidedByVoices, Mummies, Heart, Vaselines, Saints, DeadBoys, Clash, LordsOfTheNewChurch, PsychicTV, Jane'sAddiction, NWA, Television, DrDre, LinkWray, DelShannon, Elvis, EddieCochran, GeorgeHarrison, Badfinger, MottTheHoople, RaviShankar, BuffaloSpringfield, DelShannon, WandaJackson, JohnCale, SuziQuatro, CheapTrick, BeastieBoys, MCEiht, Snoop, BeachBoys, Byrds, Band, JohnPrine, WillieNelson, MazzyStar, CatStevens, RoxyMusic, Prince, Pixies, Smiths, JoyDivision, NewOrder, Neu!, GaryNuman, Berlin, Siouxie&TheBanshees, TelevisionPersonalities, Bauhaus, SistersOfMercy, GoKartMotzart, Felt, Jellyfish, HumanLeague, Cars, Cinderella, JamesBrown, Suicide, ThrobbingGristle, VonHaze, RoyalTrux, Kills, BRMC, SilverApples, SergeGainsbourg, FrancoisHardy, EnnioMorricone, NickDrake, LeeHazelwood & Nancy Sinatra, Nico, Outkast, TheMeters, 13thFloorElevators, Animals, Rascals, PrettyThings, TheWho, SmallFaces, SonicYouth, CicconeYouth, HuggyBear, PJHarvey, CCR, IggyPop, PattiSmith, Suede, DwightTwilley, TomPetty&Heartbreakers, TheBeat, Television, Runaways, GunClub, Cramps, X, BrianJonestownMassacre, Warlocks, SlickRick, TheAssociation, ToddRundgren, SingaporeSling, MBV, WoodenShjips, VonHaze, BlackAngels, BlackLips, BeachHouse, RadioDept, Broadcast, SigurRos, Slowdive, AmonDuul ll, Ride, TheChurch, NeutralMilkHotel, GrizzlyBear, Verve, Spiritualized, XTC, MyBloodyValentine, Loop, Telescopes, Pastels, TeenageFanclub, YoLaTengo, ArielPink, KateBush, MoodyBlues, Them, TheCrystals, ShangriLas, Shirelles, LorettaLynn, DollyMixture, TelevisionPersonalities, StoneRoses, TheLa's, TheAllahLas, KingTuff, Buzzcocks, Fugazi, NickCave&BadSeeds, Can, SilverApples, CaptainBeefheart, Zappa, Raveonettes, Air, WildNothing, Wilco, ScreaminJayHawkins, 13thFloorElevators, JoeMeek, WestCoastExperimentalPopGroup, TheVentures, Astronauts, TalkingHeads, TheSweet, DustySpringfield, MilesDavis, Coltrane, Mingus, TheloniousMonk, SUN RA
50s rocknroll + doo wop, 60s pop and psych, 70s bubblegum, old blues, ragtime, or jazz on a rainy day ..KXLU, KCRW, NPR.. Classical.. Motzart, Bach, Chopin, Beethoven, Stravinsky, Tchaikovsky, Ravel
Henry Miller, Steinbeck, Twain, Poe, Rimbaud, Wilde, TSEliot, Dostiefsky, Nabokov, Novalis, DalaiLama, Blake, BlackElk, Wolfe, Baudelaire, Verlaine, StephenKing, Artaud, JeanJenet, Sun-Tzu, Corso, Murakami, RamDass, Rumi, Heschel, Jabes, Kerouac, Bukowski, Salinger, Ginsberg, Ferlinghetti, KennethYasuda, GeorgesBataille, Neruda, JimCarroll, KenKesey, AynRand, TomWolf, LewisCarroll, Dickens, CSLewis, DrSuess, ShelSilverstein, AldousHuxley, RobertLuisStevenson, JackLondon, KurtVonnegut, Vollmann, JosephConrad, HunterSThompson, OscarZetaAcosta, Palahniuk, GabrielGarciaMarquez, Tolkien, CollinWilson, Iceberg Slim, CornelWest, TennesseeWilliams, Hemmingway, Orwell, Kafka, HGWells, Hesse, Borges, Camus, HPLovecraft, Masoch, Freud, St.JohnPerse, Michaux, HarukiMurakami, MiyamotoMusashi, DorothyAllison, KathyAcker, AldousHuxley, Tolstoy, StephenHawking, RayBradbury, Brautigan, PhillipKDick, LeonardCohen, Lorca, PercyShelley, JohnRechy, TomRobbins, Masoch, ToniMorrison, AliceWalker, RitaMaeBrown, LaurenBecall, Milton, LaVey, Zinn, Giroux, Woody Gutherie, HarperLee, Neitzsche, EdnaStVincentMillay, Ballard, Homer, Proust, AnaisNin, DiPrima, GeorgeBernardShaw, DylanThomas, JackLondon, Plath (yep), AndreBreton, Celine, Burroughs, RichardHell, Heller, LesterBangs, JohnWaters, Frost, Rilke, NationalGeographic, Autobiographies, JustKids-PattiSmith, CrystalChildren, The Lost Book Of Enki, TheWarOfArt, Psychomagic-Jodorowsky, Popism-Warhol ..
Kubrick, Lynch, Polanski, Jodorowsky, Godard, Cassavettes, Fellini, Wood, Hitchcock, Argento, MichelangeloAntonioni, Aldrich, Scorsese, Coppola, Corman, DePalma, Raimi, Romero, TobeHooper, Kurosawa, HenriGeorgesClouzot, JoelCohen, Brothers Quay, Jarmuch, Newmeyer, Gilliam, Guest, RobReiner, VanSant, TodSollandz, HarmonyCorine, Bertolucci, Herzog, Rossellini, Nabakov, Tarkovsky, KennethAnger, PTAnderson, WesAnderson, JimHenson, DennisHopper, Waters, Price, RussMeyer, Steckler, KenRussel, Carax, SamPeckinpah, LarsVonTrier, AbelFerrara, OrsenWells, Chaplin, WoodyAllen, Altman, Cronenberg, OliverStone, Warhol, CityOfGod, GreyGardens, BlueVelvet, ElTopo, ClintEastwood, Xanadu, GreyGardens, AdventuresOfPippiLongstocking, UNICO, Harold&Maude, Adaptation, Badlands, MarxBros. ,PaulNewman, WarrenBeatty, BelaLugosi, BetteDavis, PeterSellars, BillMurrey, FredWillard, CriterionCollection.. Earthlings, Food Inc, Sirius,
My son likes AdventureTime, RegularShow, Uncle Grandpa, SpiritedAway, Ponyo, anything HayaoMiyazaki.
Stranger Things, GOT, Bloodline, Seinfeld, AdventureTime, Three'sCompany, MiamiVice, FreshPrince, DarkShadows, FawltyTowers, GoldenGirls, TopChef, NakedAndAffraid, AttackOnTitan, SailorMoon, Ramna1/2, AnneOfGreenGables, Roseanne, Columbo, TwinPeaks, X-files, TalesFromTheDarkside, AmericanHorrorStory, PlanetEarth, Life, SharkWeek, CurbYourEnthusiasm, BreakingBad, GameOfThrones, MarcoPolo, BillMaher, TEDTalks, SurvivorMan, MyStrangeAddiction, TwilightZone, TheFactsOfLife, SpaceGhost, Lavern&Shirley..
Food:: Vegetarian, Pho, Japanese Indian
Lies I tell myself
Why I am still single
My childhood in SF
Letting go (of thoughts and ideas that hold me)
My son and who he is becomming
How insane this world is
How fucked up our political system is
How we are all connected
Where my car is parked
Places I want to go
The earth without humans🌱
I wish I was raised by wolves
How I can be a better human
What's for dinner
Who ate the raisens??
Unusual film/story ideas
Fantasia has no boundries
Playing music with friends
Home. Book. Records. Netflix. Chill. Kidding. Tea.
💥Bonus points if you ride an Japanese 80s road bike or can skate. Moonlight skates on the beach are dreamy 🌙