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My self-summary
Jesse ✋ ✨✨✨ Aries.
I'm a single Dad to the sweetest 9 year old boy in the world. We live in Venice half a block from the beach.
Sharing time with my son is number one for me.
I love being outdoors. I run and bike on the beach, hike, skate, climb, surf (beginner), practice yoga and do martial arts. I'm a bit of a homebody. I actually enjoy cleaning except for folding and putting away laundry. Who does that?!
I talk to clients all day, so when I am done for the day I am always really mellow. I'm an "extroverted introvert".
My son is an artist and a gymnist amoungst other things. He also skates and is learning guitar and other instruments. We go camping whenever possible..Yosemite, Big Sur, Joshua Tree, Sequoia

I am a hairdresser so I may stare at your hair but i will try not to judge;)
I am also working on a kids clothing line which I hope to transition toward being my main gig. I can talk about clothing.

I am obsessed with music, books, film, art and pop culture, as you can see from my extensive lists.. If you aren't into all of that stuff--totally understandable.
I play different instruments and sing uncontrollably. My son and I have a goth rock group.

I grew up in San Francisco in the inner Richmond/Haight Ashbury area. I have three sisters in the bay area, so we drive up there a lot.

I'm vegetarian. I haven't committed to vegan yet due to my hopeless cheese addiction. I love to cook and some people say i do pretty good. We are at the farmers market every week. I stir fry a lot. Coconut oil. Any recommendations on seasoning vegetables?

This is kind of personal but I think transparency is warranted...
My son's Mom passed when he was a year old. It was devestating and a very difficult transition. It's been over 8 years and we are happy guys. I have grown so much from this experience..
I have help..his Nana lives close by and loves spending time with him.

I'm hoping to meet inspired, interesting people to hang out and create with. Friends snd other parents are always good.

As far as what i'm looking for in a relationship.. Someone with big heart, tough, funny, likes my dark, dry humor, has a wild imagination, who lives in gratitude and appreciation for what she has, lives in the present, embraces the unknown, is passionate and creative in her work, lives to help others, and the planet and all it's creatures, *communicates well, tries to not harbor resentments as much as possible, is introspective, shares interests, is curious like a kitten, reads!!! , likes the rosebowl, flea markets, antiques, records etc., relatively similar taste in music would be cool, loves animals, and kids! I am definitely open to having another but if the person I fall in love with can't do it, that is ok with me:)✨
What I’m doing with my life
Growing. Suppliments. Daydreaming. Loving. Being creative.
I’m really good at
Being authentic. Showing up. Failing forward. Staying positive even when i'm bummed. Doing hair. Finding gems at flea markets. Making LISTS. Making fun of myself..and others. Making syalads. Making up wirds. Mario Kart. Doodling on napkins. Recycling..very important. Foot massages. Also very important.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Beatles, Stones, BeachBoys, TheCure, Zombies, VelvetUnderground, LouReed, Iggy Pop, TheStooges, BuffaloSpringfield, NeilYoung, TheJesusAndMaryChain, TheReplacements, HarryNilsson, BigStar, RoyOrbison, FleetwoodMac, GillianWelch, TownsVanZandt, Donovan, Kinks, PublicEnemy, RobertJohnson, FrancoiseHardy, Jaques Dutronc, France Gall, MuddyWaters, Ramones, JohnnyThunders, Leadbelly, ModernLovers, ChambersBrothers, Dylan, Bowie, T-Rex, Pulp, DeadCanDance, LisaGerard, TommyJames&Shondells,LeonardCohenJoeMeek, PatsyCline, LindaRondstadt, HankWilliams, SamCooke, Otis, EverlyBrothers, AlGreen, Temptations, EttaJames, BillieHoliday, NinaHagen, DollyParton, Carpenters, BuddyHolly, KimFowley, BlindWillieMcTell, SydBarrett, Jimi, Love, WalkerBrothers, FrankiValli, AliceCooper, Troggs, Badfinger, Rasberries, Hall&Oats, NewYorkDolls, FlaminGroovies, Spacemen3, Sabbath, LedZeppelin, LittleDragon, TerryRiley, TheFall, DepecheMode, SkinnyPuppy, SistersOfMercy, Tool, FaithNoMore, Fugazi, WhiteFence, GuidedByVoices, Mummies, Heart, Vaselines, Saints, DeadBoys, Clash, LordsOfTheNewChurch, PsychicTV, Jane'sAddiction, Television, LinkWray, DelShannon, Elvis, EddieCochran, GeorgeHarrison, Badfinger, MottTheHoople, RaviShankar, DelShannon, BobbyDarrin, WandaJackson, JohnCale, SuziQuatro, CheapTrick, MCEiht, Snoop, BeachBoys, Byrds, Band, JohnPrine, WillieNelson, MazzyStar, CatStevens, RoxyMusic, Prince, Pixies, Smiths, JoyDivision, NewOrder, Neu!, GaryNuman, Berlin, Siouxie&TheBanshees, TelevisionPersonalities, Bauhaus, SistersOfMercy, GoKartMotzart, Jellyfish, HumanLeague, Cars, JamesBrown, Suicide, ThrobbingGristle, VonHaze, RoyalTrux, Kills, SilverApples, SergeGainsbourg, FrancoisHardy, EnnioMorricone, NickDrake, LeeHazelwood & Nancy Sinatra, Nico, Outcast, TheMeters, 13thFloorElevators, Animals, Rascals, PrettyThings, TheWho, SmallFaces, SonicYouth, CicconeYouth, HuggyBear, PJHarvey, CCR, IggyPop, PattiSmith, Suede, DwightTwilley, TomPetty&Heartbreakers, TheBeat, Television, Runaways, GunClub, Cramps, X, BrianJonestownMassacre, Warlocks, DrabMajesty, SlickRick, TheAssociation, ToddRundgren, SingaporeSling, MBV, WoodenShjips, VonHaze, BlackAngels, BlackLips, RadioDept, Broadcast, SigurRos, Slowdive, AmonDuul ll, Ride, TheChurch, NeutralMilkHotel, GrizzlyBear, Verve, Spacemen3, Spiritualized, XTC, Loop, Telescopes, Pastels, TeenageFanclub, YoLaTengo, ArielPink, KateBush, MoodyBlues, Them, TheCrystals, ShangriLas, BillWyman, Shirelles, LorettaLynn, DollyMixture, TelevisionPersonalities, StoneRoses, TheLa's, KingTuff, Buzzcocks, Fugazi, NickCave&BadSeeds, Can, CaptainBeefheart, Zappa, Raveonettes, Air, Wilco, ScreaminJayHawkins, 13thFloorElevators, JoeMeek, WestCoastExperimentalPopGroup, TheVentures, Astronauts, TalkingHeads, TheSweet, MilesDavis, Coltrane, Mingus, TheloniousMonk, SUN RA
50s rocknroll + doo wop, 60s pop, garage and psych, 70s bubblegum, old blues, ragtime, or jazz on a rainy day ..KXLU, KCRW, NPR.. Classical.. Motzart, Bach, Chopin, Beethoven, Stravinsky, Tchaikovsky, Ravel

Henry Miller, Steinbeck, Twain, Poe, Rimbaud, Wilde, TSEliot, Dostiefsky, Nabokov, Novalis, DalaiLama, Blake, BlackElk, Wolfe, Baudelaire, Verlaine, StephenKing, Artaud, JeanJenet, Sun-Tzu, Corso, Murakami, RamDass, Rumi, Heschel, Jabes, Kerouac, Bukowski, Salinger, Ginsberg, Ferlinghetti, KennethYasuda, GeorgesBataille, Neruda, JimCarroll, KenKesey, AynRand, TomWolf, LewisCarroll, Dickens, CSLewis, DrSuess, ShelSilverstein, AldousHuxley, RobertLuisStevenson, JackLondon, KurtVonnegut, Vollmann, JosephConrad, HunterSThompson, OscarZetaAcosta, Palahniuk, GabrielGarciaMarquez, Tolkien, CollinWilson, Iceberg Slim, CornelWest, TennesseeWilliams, Hemmingway, Orwell, Kafka, HGWells, Hesse, Borges, Camus, HPLovecraft, Masoch, Freud, St.JohnPerse, Michaux, HarukiMurakami, MiyamotoMusashi, DorothyAllison, KathyAcker, AldousHuxley, Tolstoy, StephenHawking, RayBradbury, Brautigan, PhillipKDick, LeonardCohen, Lorca, PercyShelley, JohnRechy, TomRobbins, Masoch, ToniMorrison, AliceWalker, RitaMaeBrown, LaurenBecall, Milton, LaVey, Zinn, Giroux, Woody Gutherie, HarperLee, Neitzsche, EdnaStVincentMillay, Ballard, Homer, Proust, AnaisNin, DiPrima, GeorgeBernardShaw, DylanThomas, JackLondon, Plath (yep), AndreBreton, Celine, Burroughs, RichardHell, Heller, LesterBangs, JohnWaters, Frost, Rilke, NationalGeographic, Autobiographies, JustKids-PattiSmith, CrystalChildren, The Lost Book Of Enki, TheWarOfArt, Psychomagic-Jodorowsky, Popism-Warhol ..

Kubrick, Lynch, Polanski, Jodorowsky, Godard, Cassavettes, Fellini, Wood, Hitchcock, Argento, MichelangeloAntonioni, Aldrich, Scorsese, Coppola, Corman, DePalma, Raimi, Romero, TobeHooper, Kurosawa, HenriGeorgesClouzot, JoelCohen, Brothers Quay, Jarmuch, Newmeyer, Gilliam, Guest, RobReiner, VanSant, TodSollandz, HarmonyCorine, Bertolucci, Herzog, Rossellini, Nabakov, Tarkovsky, KennethAnger, PTAnderson, WesAnderson, JimHenson, DennisHopper, Waters, Price, RussMeyer, Steckler, KenRussel, Carax, SamPeckinpah, LarsVonTrier, AbelFerrara, OrsenWells, Chaplin, WoodyAllen, Altman, Cronenberg, OliverStone, Warhol, CityOfGod, GreyGardens, BlueVelvet, ElTopo, ClintEastwood, Xanadu, GreyGardens, AdventuresOfPippiLongstocking, UNICO, Harold&Maude, Adaptation, Badlands, MarxBros. ,PaulNewman, WarrenBeatty, BelaLugosi, BetteDavis, PeterSellars, BillMurrey, FredWillard, CriterionCollection.. Earthlings, Food Inc, Sirius,
My son likes AdventureTime, RegularShow, Uncle Grandpa, SpiritedAway, Ponyo, anything HayaoMiyazaki.

Stranger Things, GOT, Bloodline, Seinfeld, AdventureTime, Three'sCompany, MiamiVice, FreshPrince, DarkShadows, FawltyTowers, GoldenGirls, TopChef, NakedAndAffraid, AttackOnTitan, SailorMoon, Ramna1/2, AnneOfGreenGables, Roseanne, Columbo, TwinPeaks, X-files, TalesFromTheDarkside, AmericanHorrorStory, PlanetEarth, Life, SharkWeek, CurbYourEnthusiasm, BreakingBad, GameOfThrones, MarcoPolo, BillMaher, TEDTalks, SurvivorMan, MyStrangeAddiction, TwilightZone, TheFactsOfLife, SpaceGhost, Lavern&Shirley..

Food:: Vegetarian, Pho, Japanese Indian

Art:: Degenerate

Ansel Adams
Six things I could never do without
My Son, dreams, love, friends, family, animals, nature, laughter, blue skies, clouds, rain, music, roadtrips, the beach, sunglasses, picnics, bonfires, pillows, tea and coffee, books, jokes, absurdity..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Lies I tell myself
Why I am still single
My childhood in SF
Letting go (of thoughts and ideas that hold me)
My son and who he is becomming
My sisters
The appocolypse
How insane this world is
How fucked up our political system is
How we are all connected
Where my car is parked
Black holes
Vortex cabinets
What if's..
Places I want to go
The earth without humans🌱
Deeep sea
I wish I was raised by wolves
Coast redwoods
How I can be a better human
What's for dinner
Tree houses
Who ate the raisens??
Unusual film/story ideas
Fantasia has no boundries
On a typical Friday night I am
Dinner with friends
Playing music with friends
Bike rides
Home. Books. Records. Netflix. Chill. Kidding. Tea.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can't blow a bubble ..yet
You should message me if
You aren't flakey..Sometimes is not an issue.. We all reserve that right..we work hard and deserve some slack.

💥Bonus points if you ride an Japanese 80s road bike or can skate. Moonlight skates on the beach are dreamy 🌙


The two of us