60 Perris, United States
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My self-summary
I moved to Perris, CA and, unlike when I originally posted here I am working. I am taking life as it happens and not trying to find a man who will be some sort of panacea in my life. I am very much into younger looking and short men if there is a sexual relationship contemplated. For things outside of the sexual, I like intelligent people of all ages for friends but don't mind befriending someone who is not necessarily smart if they are good natured and fun.

I am big-hearted, a bit strange, and not into fill-blanks

Recently, I have enjoyed going places and doing things with friends. I have volunteered at Long Beach. LA and Orange County Prides and am going to volunteer at Palm Springs Pride and perhaps for an event for the Trevor Project - I was formerly a board member of the old Orange County Pride (OCCP) and was a key volunteer for LA/Valley Pride. As I get more mature, I find satisfaction in giving back to the gay community through my efforts. I am spending more time recently volunteering with a local rail museum, Orange Empire Railway Museum (www.oerm.org) because they have a neat group of accepting people and quite a wonderful history and mission...

When Connexion.org closed down, I was asked to open a website for people who chatted there, so I am now owner of www.lgbtqconnect.com. Not much going on there anymore :(

Too bad the religion thing here is 'multiple choice' - Alan Watts says some things that are in line with my thinking here: http://youtu.be/q-NaaKE1xtw
What I’m doing with my life
Working to keep my career going, making friends, deciding on whether to take things in a whole new direction somehow!
I’m really good at
figuring out how to do something on the computer. I used to be really good in the sack... lol - but time kinda makes that less and less...
The first things people usually notice about me
Nobody has told me, but it might be the fact that I try to be courteous and friendly and polite. Of course, if someone starts things out impolitely themselves, I may be less so :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Science Fiction and fantasy - I read a LOT of it. I usually try to find reading material in the library but I will buy books if that seems to be drying up. I don't watch a lot of movies or TV but have found that it is enjoyable to go see the 'blockbuster' movies in a theater because of the big screen and interesting sound. I do like a lot of music - some favorites are Radiohead, The Cure, Bowie, Late of the Pier, ... I refer you to my YouTube page: http://www.youtube.com/elegyjay
The six things I could never do without
my life
my life
my life
my life
my life
my health

Ummm... sorry - I have gotten so 'tossed around' recently that I have come to not value possessions too much - as long as I am alive and not horribly in pain, there is hope.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
guys! LOL Sometimes I do think about the state of the world and wonder where the jetpack they promised me when I was a kid is.
On a typical Friday night I am
at home in a chat room; out at a bar; at home reading
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I used to get really upset if someone overlooked me because I am short.
You should message me if
you have anything interesting to discuss