eletsim
46 New Berlin, United States
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My self-summary
I should point out that I'm not a paid member on the site, so I can not see all the "likes." Flattering for sure, but not productive. Lol. Now that that's out of the way...

I love being a dad, and have fun doing things with people that enjoy life. Variety is the spice of life! I'm just missing a companion to enjoy time with. I am generally easy going and am comfortable in most situations. I tend to smile a lot and look for ways to make a situation more fun. I am usually cracking jokes and do really enjoy people watching. My comfort situations go from simple to complex. I tend to be open and talkative in social settings.

I'm looking to find someone whom I enjoy spending time with, and to build our new normal, together. I'm a sucker for a woman with beautiful eyes, long hair, and an alluring smile. I tend to date women with goals, a direction in life, a fun personality, humor, and well, curves. I am a guy after all, no apologies here. Lol. I'm looking for a woman who is comfortable and proud with who they are. Sexy is not just a look, its an attitude. Its in her walk, the coy smiles, and the way she carries herself. Confidence without being cocky is a turn on. I'm looking for someone who is happy with herself, not a victim in life. She has to be a GREAT mom to her kids. It shows she is capable of love and how she treats those she cares about, at least in my narrow experiences. I've been there and rescued my share from life, lets just say stable is sexy to me. I'm looking for my best friend. I like to tease and be playful, so don't be suprised if I make you roll your eyes or a hand on the small of your back, followed by a slap on the ass when no one is looking! I'm cool like that! ;-) The banter and playfullness is fun and missed. I'm looking for someone who looks forward to that morning cup of coffee with you, and share that glass of wine at night. I'm really looking for that pretty wrapper but with that awesome gooey center! Are you oozy? Lol. Simply put, a woman that makes it easy to love her and genuinely reciprocates, and doesn't hide when life gets tough! I've been in 2 long term relationships. The first was a simply a test, and the last taught me what true love could be. I'd like to find it again.

What you will get in return? Well, I'm glad you asked. You will get a guy that makes time for you, doesn't try to solve all your problems, and will simply listen. You get a guy that is strong both mentally and physically, that realizes you can be, well, just you. Both the good and the bad. I'm somewhat old fashioned, romantic sure, but hey, I may need reminders when life gets hectic. Someone who wants to be your best friend, will reluctantly (very reluctantly) purse shop with you, will actually tell you when you look "wow" (and encourage it with more than just a pat on the ass) and will show more than his share of genuine affection if the connection is there, and its reciprocated. Really, just a normal guy with with an extrordinary love of life, and an attention to the details that make you, well, you. I appreciate all the little things that make it worth while, the inside jokes, the little smirks, coy smiles, the glow in her eyes, the naughty notes, racey texts, coffee at sunrise, and that look of true contentment. The eyes are the windows to the soul, and I like to look into them.

Sound like a journey you would like to embark upon? There's only one golden ticket available. Send me a message! This is a limited time offer...lol. The rest you will have to find out first hand for yourself. I may just beat you to it and be in your inbox.

Oh, and I get asked this a lot. Yes I am really 6ft tall, a little over actually.
What I’m doing with my life
Raising my boys, working, enjoying myself. I've made some changes in my life to eliminate lifes stresses so life is good! I seem to be fixing more things now a days and its relaxing since I have an analytical job. And, just living life. Dating has been fun, I've met some really attractive and great people, just not the right fit, or my "flavor" yet. No rush, and no worries. The journey is half the fun. Just need to find the destination...
I’m really good at
Being a dad, listening, making people laugh with smart comments even at my own expense, fixing things, carrying a conversation, exploring new things, and turning a bad situation enjoyable. Isn't that what it's about? Oh, and romance. I'm the type of guy that will toss chocolate at you after a rough day, pour you a glass of wine, draw you a bubble bath with candles and your favorite book, then undress you ease you in the tub and tell you not to come out untill you soak the crabby away. Lol.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, personality, confidence, and broad shoulders. People also tell me I smile thru my eyes, but you will have to meet me to find out for yourself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like 80's rock, country, jazz, raggae, everything but extreme heavy metal. I usually listen to country, but my favorite band is AC/DC. You figure that one out! Lol. I am not much of a tv guy. I like scary movies, action movies, and history stuff. Books, whats that? I am usually busy with other things or directions for assembling something.
The six things I could never do without
My kids, a fire in the fireplace or firepit, my cellphone, good friends, stability, and enjoying life! Oh, and ice cream!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I am analytical so you name it. Theres a lot going on in there some times!
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending time with my kids, out with friends, at a festival, running my black lab, or just relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Your going to have to reach out to find out!
You should message me if
If your looking to spend time with someone who appreciates great company, great conversation, and genuine fun. Go ahead and send me a message! We may hit it off or leave as friends. Either way, it was a night not wasted. If it doesn't lead to anything I may be your new wingman or you can be mine...lol. I've been on some great, fun dates, just didn't feel a connection as anything other than friends. Finding a date is easy, finding the connection is the difficult part. If you think you can keep up, go ahead and message me. I don't bite...usually. lol. No rush and no worries. If not, best of luck to you on your quest!
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