47 Gastonia, United States
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My self-summary
I am starting to wonder if there are any decent men left in the world. Doesn't ANYBODY want a woman for anything more than how willing she is to sleep with you? and why on earth would you even want that kind of chick..nothing but trouble, I tell ya..
I just broke up with a man I thought was for life, not only a lover but my best friend. Turns out however, he can't keep ...himself...out of others...and I am NOT a toy. I am NOT an option. I am an honest woman with many gifts to give.
I deserve my OWN man, not one I have to share. I wish somebody could appreciate that.
I like to think of myself as a diamond in the rough, who just needs someone to polish me to make me shine.
I want a man, not a boy. Somebody with integrity.
Does that even exist anymore, or is it a lost cause?
What I’m doing with my life
I graduated in May of 2014, and now wonder if I can actually USE that degree in a new job field.. as of now.. I'm just another college grad with no job.
Hoping that maybe life will present a way for me to enter the next phase of education and not leave me in debt as I have no debt from the last go round(scholarships).
Please note. I pay my own bills and not looking to be kept up. I'm just not keeping you up either.. Fair enough.
I’m really good at
telling you what I think and how I really feel..
The first things people usually notice about me
my eyes, my ass, my honesty. hahaha..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love a good horror story to read, crime drama is my favorite on TV, movies, think along the lines of The Shawshank Redemption, or anything by Tyler Perry... I know, big contrast, huh.
food..I am really basic..low carb, high protein, and I am good.
The six things I could never do without
my dog,
my computer,
pretty underwear,
my phone,(cell or landline, who cares which)
my friends
something to write with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
when and where God is going to deliever the RIGHT man for me. I'm tired of losers only interested in my ass. Give me a man who stands for something and has something to say worth listening to.
On a typical Friday night I am
usually at home, as I am too old for the club scene. sometimes out with friends, but it better be worth my time or I'd rather stay in and watch TV.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
2 things.
1. I like to watch WWE wrestling..old habit picked up by watching with my granddaddy.
2. I have had RNY gastric bypass surgery and have lost 271 pounds.
how's that for private.
You should message me if
you're a decent guy, with your own life, no wife, no girl on the side. I am sick to death of being one of many. I am not an option. I am a PRIORITY...
so treat me like one.
also, please note.
I prefer to socialize with TALL African American men. If this is not you.. don't be offended.
not everybody likes the same thing. I'm sure you're a nice guy. I have my preferences, just like you do. I'm just trying to save you some time.
My husband of 15 years was white, so no, I am not prejudice...at all. but my truest love.. my first love...my last love.. was a beautiful black man. He is and always will be my best friend, so if that's an issue.. keep it moving. I've known him 30 years longer than I have you..so guess who will win.. every time..