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My self-summary
Sorry about the picture. I know I need to post more, problem is, they all look like me...Ha! Okay, really will try to get more soon. Yes, I am bald... mostly. hope that doesn't give you PTSD after your long and hard search to find my profile. I don't remember my nose being that pointy... don't think it is... oh well (no it is not pointy!)

If you are here because I sent you a message, feel free to look around. Make yourself at home. No need to feel any obligation to message me back. I don't take it personally, Hey, it's not easy out there.

Think, you got past the first part of my self-summary and kept reading, who knows you might just like me. We might like each other... It could happen.

Here is some info about me, If you got this far don't stop now.

live alone, except for my dogs and cats.
like ( in no particular order)
1. Art
2. Coffee
3. Books
4. Movies
5. chocolate
6. spending time not working on my house when I should.
7. trying not to eat things that are bad for me.
8. eating them anyway.
9. cooking (see #7 & #8).
10. Dancing (thats what I call it anyway.)
11. taking short, and long, trips.
12. spending time with friends.
13. this was something about working out at the gym, but now I work out at home.... sometimes... ok, not enough but trying.
14. Trying hard to seem clever on internet dating site... (OK, not really trying very hard)

have a Job, pay my taxes, try not to curse (yes try).
don't drink, don't smoke... what do ya do? I think that is a song.....? maybe? -actually I do drink, but not often ( I don't think that part is in the song) (Adam Ant as it turns out, I like that song)

I spend far to much of my available time falling for women who would/could never love me back.
I tend to daydream.

don't really drink, only socially. When I go to bars or whatever (?) I tend to hang out but not drink much. Sometimes I will be at the store and look through all the wines. I mostly look at the label art. I also like to go to art galleries and museums sometimes just hang out and daydream. I can't explain, it isn't something I think about in words.

sometimes can ramble on, and on... and on...

So, what do I want, what am I really looking for? The same thing as everyone else, of course. - Right now I just want to connect with new people, have fun and enjoy life. would like to meet someone who might just want to run with me in the park. But it seems finding something like that is more difficult and comes with more baggage than one would think, it is never that simple is it.? If we ever get to the point where what I want in a relationship really matters, maybe I will have some idea what that is by then. so for now...
Do you want to drive 4 hours to eat at a restaurant you heard about on NPR?, go to the sick and twisted animation show at midnight?, spend sunday in the park? So do I, it's just so much more fun when with someone.... sheesh! what's up with this guy. he's nuts. (no problem, I doubt anyone will read all of this anyway)

I just want to enjoy my life and find love if I can. A hundred years from now no one will even remember me.
The least I can do is try to really live while I still have time.
I would like to paint again... someday. (wow, that was random)
What I’m doing with my life
Working, paying the bills, and trying to not seem crazy on internet dating site.
Lately I am trying to get the yard... liveable..? thinking about some grass. (in the yard... yes... the yard)
I also would like to make some kind of garden by the side of the house, need to find the time.
I’m really good at
being trained by my dogs and cats. I do pretty much whatever they want on demand.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't think people usually notice me unless I'm blocking their view of someone they're trying to notice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This part is really a work in progress. There is so much...
compiling a list now.....

Please come back to read the rest soon! I promise the interesting part is coming up... I'll bet.

I am not really making a list. i just don't think you would believe me if I did.

As for music, I enjoy many artists. My current favorites are Morrissey, and Tegan & Sara.

See, you probably don't believe that.

Ok, it's the weekend and I am trying to avoid doing things I really need to do. Perfect solution, see if I can get this list thingy started.

Some of my favorite books and/or authors are:
Kerouac, H.P. Lovecraft, Simon Van Booy, Marisa de los Santos, Jeanette Winterson, Goethe, Heather O'Neill, E. M. Forster, Jane Austen, Al Franken, Christopher Hitchens... more later.

I like good Sci Fi, which seems very hard to come by these days. I did enjoy Interstellar. Plot problems and all. I think that movie has the best movie robots.
I also liked: A Million Ways To Die In The West (yes, I laughed, a lot, forgive me), The Perks of being a Wallflower, 2001( HAL 9000, Best movie villain ever), Superman Returns (way better than Man of Steel), The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo, Nick & Norah's Infinite Playlist, A Room with a View, Enchanted April, Mulholland Dr., On The Road, Harold &Kumar go to White Castle, Hugo, Chasing Amy, Sideways, Kung Fu Hustle, Scott Pilgrim Vs. The World, Watchmen, V for Vendetta, Better off Dead... think of more later.

As for food, if it is bad for me I am sure I like it.
Six things I could never do without
Maggie(the dog), Barney(sadly, Barney died. RIP), Pyke and Wilbur (the new dogs), Snickers (my cat), Cinder(my other cat), long rides, sly looks, secret loves. (8, yes I know)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
why spending time on this site often seems draining and ultimately pointless.

places I have never been.
people I will never meet, probably you.
On a typical Friday night I am
Alone in a crowd.
You should message me if
If you support Trump, don't bother, he is a crazy person.
You lean left instead of right.
Ever wanted to travel across the country by train.
If rain makes you happy and sad at the same time.
You want to fly a kite.
The two of us