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My self-summary
To find out if the following is true you'll just have to take a tiny risk, chat with me and find out for yourself.

I am quite expressive - you will never be in any doubt about how I feel. I'm an extrovert, and an optimist. That can make me a bit tiring to be around. Fortunately, I am not in the least possessive.

I enjoy the absurd tests here, and am inordinately proud of scoring Captain Jack as the Dr. Who companion I most closely resemble. Not in dress sense unfortunately.
What I’m doing with my life
I am rebuilding my circus after a series of calamities. This process delights me. Repairing the big top will take half of this year.

More broadly, I am living with intensity and gratitude, with love and adventure.
I’m really good at
being me. That's all. I enjoy my own company, that of one or two others (at a time) and wild loud parties. Professionally, I am good at teaching, singing, physical performance and engineering. I am good at love in many forms.
The first things people usually notice about me
Sigh, probably that I am short. Then that I am oddly happy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I prefer people over most of those things, although I am happy to combine them. I like live theater of most kinds, and live music.
Six things I could never do without
Connection - generally I mean with a lover, but with very close friends too. This is more important than sleep to me. Without it I get sad. It's partly why I am on okcupid. its also one of the driving forces of my life.

Productivity - I need to feel as if I am achieving something. fortunately I run my own business, so getting that is easy.

Pleasure - food, sex, nature, talking, theater, singing. And that is the other reason I'm on this site. Sex is inherently shared, but I like to share other pleasure as well.

Community - I live in a small town. Its important to me that I know who lives around me.

Learning - I love it and need it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why people are doing the things they are doing.
What I am going to do next, and with whom.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't lead a life with much pattern. Varies widely. I go to my favorite pub and listen to a live band and chat with friends, stay home, visit friends. Sometimes, I work, which isn't as sad as it sounds - I love my work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I actually am private and won't put private things on the internet.
You should message me if
* you want to, and you think we might click. I answered lots of questions to help with that last bit. And
* you have a lot of positive directed energy or at least no problem being around someone like that. And
* you have got over short partner syndrome. :)
The two of us