You don't have to be romantically interested in me to message me, I'm interested in making friends too. To be honest, I'm not very romantically or sexually inclined, but I suppose I do like the idea of clicking/settling down with someone... even as a weird anti-capitalism friends thing. I'm not opposed to a romantic or sexual relationship, but I'm probably on the asexual/aromantic spectrum somewhere because I'm not particularly motivated regarding the whole relationship thing.
Having said that, sexually - I'm going to be frank here - I don't have a dick. I don't want a dick. If you want a guy with a dick, I am not the right guy for you.
Brief trans 101 - I'm not trapped in my body. I wasn't 'born female'. I don't have 'female' sex organs. Sex and gender are not and should not be binary. I reject gender roles. I reject pretty much everything that society has to say about gender.
I'm not a fan of any kind of oppression, but I do respect people who acknowledge their biases and are working on them.
Now that that's out of the way... I'm surprisingly easygoing, despite everything that I just wrote up there. I respect boundaries. I'm quiet, bit of an introvert (but not particularly shy or socially awkward). I tend to wallow in existential depression. I'm unmotivated, but am trying to fix that. I'm anti-capitalist, and pro social justice. I align myself most closely with poststructural and intersectional feminism.
I don't really have a preference when it comes to my sexuality. All genders are welcome to contact me, and genitalia is largely irrelevant to me. I also welcome contact from poly people and people who are already in relationships but who are (mutually) looking for something a little extra. I'm extremely open-minded. The only thing is that I don't really want to date anyone too young, it feels creepy to me. I'm happy to be friends though, especially with queer & trans people.
If we ever get into the bedroom, I can be a bit kinky. This isn't a requirement, just doesn't hurt to mention.
I'm detail-orientated, which can be a blessing and a curse.
I watch a lot of TV, but I'm really bad at keeping up with any of it. I think the only thing that I'm actually up to date on right now is the Great British Bake Off.
When it comes to films - if it's sci-fi, I'll watch it. But I'll also watch pretty much anything else. Unless it's romcom. Too much heterosexuality. Boring. I'm also a sucker for kids' films, especially Pixar. I'm actually looking for a movie buddy as I have the Meerkat Movies thing so if you're free on Wednesday evenings and fancy a movie, hit me up?
I listen to music across all genres, but I'm especially fond of music that tells a story (I'm fond of stories in general). I listen to music from dubstep to bluegrass, so I'm really open-minded genre wise. I just like what I like. I love talking about music though, so if you're a music fanatic, feel free to strike up a conversation and/or give me some suggestions!
Unless I really like what I see and/or you're trans, I'm unlikely to message first. This especially applies if you're straight (or gay, I suppose) as I'm not sure if you'll be into trans people. If you're interested, shoot me a message. Even if you're just up for making friends!