50Old Saybrook, United States
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My self-summary
I've seen and done a lot, been to a lot of places, but I always welcome new experiences. Always curious. It's the best cure for boredom there is! Looking for another special person to have an emotional connection, adventures, who doesn't need me but wants to see me about weekly because I appreciate everything about her.

I love great conversation over dinner, getting to know someone new. I like to flirt, love to kiss, love to dance, especially swing dance! I like to ride my motorcycle in nice weather. I am outgoing. Friendly. Inappropriate in a fun way. A good conversationalist.

I would also welcome a new riding partner, either who has her own bike or is willing to jump on the back of mine, which is a 2015 Yamaha V-Star 950. Or a rope partner, that's fun, too! ;-) Kink is a fun occasional diversion. The nerd part I live 24/7.
What I’m doing with my life
Work. Kids. But also...

I'm married to and having grand adventures with an awesome, sexy, fun, thoughtful, open-minded and wonderful woman who gets me and has an exciting perspective on life such that I am never bored.

My wife and I keep no secrets. If you and I hit it off, you will certainly meet her at some point.

I also have an awesomely fun, sexy girlfriend, Playful_Imp, who loves swing dancing and riding on my motorcycle.
I’m really good at
Listening, carrying my half of an interesting conversation. Fixing things. Helping out. Being responsible. I'm learning I'm a serious quiz profile is The Backrubber, and it's right on the money.
The first things people usually notice about me
My inappropriate sense of humor. I'm funny, outgoing, make friends easily, and laid back, but I get a lot done. And I'm comfortable talking about very personal things! ;-)

I also end up using texting as a primary means of communication, unless it is made clear that emails or phone calls are preferred.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have to admit I like urban fantasy...yeah, I've read Twilight, and all the Sookie Stackhouse and Anita Blake books and a bunch of others- currently the Iron Druid series has captured my attention. Meredith Gentry series, too (Laurell K. Hamilton). Science Fiction - all of it. Harry Potter books were very enjoyable; my experience was affected by having seen several of the movies before I read the series; all the pictures in my head featured the movie actors/actresses!

Other great reads are Sex at Dawn, What Women Want, The Ethical Slut, Opening Up, More Than Two, and Insatiable Wives!

I like all kinds of movies - some favorites are Princess Bride, My Best Friends Girl, Monty Python. One of my all-time favorites is A Knight's Tale. Moulin Rouge! Momma Mia! Grease. The Muppet Movie. Pitch Perfect. I like live musicals and concerts. And porn. Of course...

All kinds of music, but mostly popular, alternative, and grunge. I also listen to NPR almost every workday, I donate to it, and am very glad it's there!

I love all kinds of food. Not picky.

I don't watch a lot of live TV...nothing against it, but I'm usually doing something else. Netflix and Xfinity OnDemand are my friends! Game of Thrones. Daredevil. House of Cards. Being Human. Breaking Bad. Firefly. Burn Notice. The 4400. Chuck. Six Feet Under. Lost Girl. Continuum. Dexter. OITNB. X-Files. iZombie. Supernatural. Buffy. And maybe Glee. Maybe. Sometimes. *facepalm
Six things I could never do without
my kids, my GGG* wife, a sense of contributing to society, good books, hot tubs, back scratches, hugs and kisses and touches.

*Google Dan Savage GGG
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Doing the best for my kids. Sometimes feeling guilty for not doing all the things with them that I think of doing. Also often am thinking about my job, pop culture, women, science fiction, fantasy , politics, world events, and new opportunities.
On a typical Friday night I am
Who has typical anything? Every other weekend I have my kids and so do things with them. If not, it's either something social or snuggling with Netflix at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love to kiss and touch. I have been told by many that I am a very sensual person and have magic hands.

If you are on FL too, let's talk more. ;-)
You should message me if
I like getting messages so go ahead! I'm responsive, articulate, and really really cute!! :-)

You are adventurous and looking for a like-minded friend to hang and flirt and have fun with. You like short skirts, long jackets, and can cut through red tape with a machete.

Or you really like good back rubs/massages; you find anything I've written to be in any way interesting, and you don't live too far away.
The two of us