30Fort Wayne, United States
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My self-summary
I enjoy: spending time talking with people, meeting strangers, reading good books, Art Nouveau, driving with the windows down, waking up really early, sleeping in really late, walking in the woods, drinking tea, writing in notebooks, doodling, laughing, playing with Legos, when it is very windy, thunderstorms, Wikipedia, living with my cat, Tudor Revival architecture, bundling up when it is cold outside, playing with cardboard, kicking leaf piles gently, sleeping under lots of blankets, eating cereal, finding things on the ground, watching people walk about, watching music get made live, finding people who are happy, StumbleUpon, etc...

I like long underwear and weather that justifies wearing it. Also, cardigans.

Also, I enjoy TED Talks. One of them once made me laugh so hard that I spilled at least 7oz of milk on myself. A few weeks went by and I tried to find it again and I couldn't. Then a few months went by and I couldn't even remember what it was about. Lovely things are sometimes lost.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I'm contemplating about how reasonable it would be to replace this old futon I have with a narrow cute cardboard couch. I have plenty of cardboard and many gallons of wood glue.

UPDATE: I'm no longer contemplating building any cardboard furniture. A friend of mine accused me of being a hoarder and threw half my cardboard away. A recent close call in regards to my apartment catching fire made it difficult to protest. Despite the difficulty I still protested, but he kept bending the cardboard and throwing it away. I was very angry, but after a few days I realized that it was much easier to move around and Oatmeal seemed happier, so I forgave him, mostly.
I’m really good at
Playing with Legos
The first things people usually notice about me
Sometimes people say, 'why are you angry?' But whenever they say this I'm not angry because I'm rarely angry. So probably the first thing people notice is that I look angry. Over the years I've learned to just reply, 'This is just how my face looks.' And then I scowl really hard to emphasize the condition of my face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Gödel, Escher, Bach, Watership Down, One Day in the Life of Ivan Denisovich, Ishmael, 1984, John Fowles, Coetzee, Steinbeck, nonfiction, fiction

Movies: The Last Unicorn, Groundhog Day, Being There, Being John Malkovich, Synecdoche, New York, Primer, Amadeus, Shortbus, Network, Dogtooth, Frida, The Truman Show, The Edukators, David Cronenberg, Wes Anderson, Miranda July

Shows: You're the Worst, Flea Bag, Broad City, Transparent, Silicon Valley, House of Cards, Orange is the New Black, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Arrested Development, Game of Thrones, Sunny, Twin Peaks, Doctor Who, Gilmore Girls, TNG, Dead Like Me

Music: Amanda Palmer, Sharon Van Etten, Regina Spektor, Fleet Foxes, Lightning Dust, Mumford & Sons, Arcade Fire, Ben and Bruno, Antony & The Johnsons, Wim Mertens, The Shins, Sunset Rubdown, Ramona Falls, DeVotchka, Iron Horse, The Divine Comedy, Mariee Sioux

Food: Soylent, Burgers with Fried Eggs, Tuna Casserole, Cheese Toasties, Boiled Eggs, Macaroni and Cheese with Tuna, Bananas, Sushi, Artichokes, Avocados, Mushrooms, Mussels, Granola, Mashed Potatoes

Internet Cartoons: The Perry Bible Fellowship, xkcd, Saturday Morning Breakfast Cereal, Pictures for Sad Children, Married To The Sea, Hark! A Vagrant
Six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Alternative Education Models
Analytical Structures
Sustainable Communities
On a typical Friday night I am
I am with friends, or with my cat, who is also my friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit

I've noticed that occasionally people put, 'That I'm on this site,' in this section. I do not agree with that sentiment. I am an unapologetic advocate of this site. I believe the algorithm functions well. This site is great not just for meeting people but also for having interesting conversations or sporadic mailings from a pen pal stranger. And the questions provide an opportunity for introspection. People shouldn't feel embarrassed to be on here, even if they are primarily here looking for a special person. This site is not a mark of desperation anymore than smiling at strangers more frequently would be.
You should message me if
You know of a movie I might like.
You want to be my pen pal.
The two of us