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My self-summary
Oh well, you did ask! Basically, I'm a funny, sensitive bloke, a loyal friend, a good dad (I hope) to my seventeen year old son, feeling a bit despondent at times about finding a friend and lover, but hell, I'm here, and looking!

I am witty, intelligent, and sexy
What I’m doing with my life
Treading water a bit (although I think that's probably a very poor answer here, however honest). Making serious enquiries about progressing my training as a counsellor. Considering moving to the countryside and whether I can afford a skiing holiday this year.
I’m really good at
Making a pig's ear of internet dating profiles. Having said that, I'm a good listener and can make people feel at ease. I also play a mean guitar and seem to have an emerging talent in the kitchen (cooking, not grouting).
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes ( I have more than my fair share); my long, sensitive fingers; the bulge in my jeans
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love sleazy, sexy blues. Thankfully, growing older gives one more kudos when playing it in (illegally) smoky basement bars.

Embarrassingly, I'm still swooning over Avatar but I did find equilibrium by watching Brief Encounter directly afterwards.

I do have the most amazing local Indian, but maybe everyone does.

I really was affected by Joyce's Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man. Somehow, the Higher Education Funding Regulations which I read daily don't seem to compare.
Six things I could never do without
My son, my guitar, my ability to laugh at life, filling in self-analysis forms, my ambition to one day own a gecko, Arsenal, my inheritance
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What it would be like to be in love again, or at least having great sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either watching Shakespeare at the Barbican or swilling bargain bitter in my local Wetherspoons
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have had cybersex and enjoyed it
You should message me if
You're quirky, intelligent and have a sense of the ridiculous.
The two of us