25 Buffalo, United States
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My self-summary
I try to see the beauty and humor in life as much as possible while attempting to stay grounded and connected. I've experienced a lot in my twenty something years on this planet, and hope to keep on weaving my web for one hundred more.

I believe in the radical possibilities of pleasure, babe
What I’m doing with my life
I'm an organizer for a civil rights non-profit and I get to travel a lot because of it. So if you ever want to talk at length about New York State politics and how much the IDC fucking sucks, I'm your gal. I'm conflicted on the efficacy of my job, but I kind of love it most of the time.

I'm also taking baths, petting dogs, drinking bloody Mary's, writing and spending time with my kids (yes, more than one) and cleaning all the things
I’m really good at
Being a Sicilian grandmother and force feeding you sauce. Saying I should really start doing yoga/dancing/stretching/moving my body and then sitting and ordering a pizza.
The first things people usually notice about me
My cat eyes and split smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Purity Ring, Bikini Kill, X-Ray Spex, Cocorosie, Tegan and Sara, Le Tigre, Sleater Kinney, Lykke Li, Adele, Amy Winehouse and Metric. I also really love everything from Fucked Up to Bon Iver to Bone-thugs-n-harmony to Billie Holiday to Calle 13.

The Stranger by Albert Camus, The Unbearable Lightness of Being by Milan Kundera and The Paper Bag Princess by Robert Munsch. I also really love anything Isabelle Allende and the poems of Pablo Neruda. Currently reading everything Neil Gaiman that I can get my hands on.

Secretary, Garden State, But I'm A Cheerleader!, Elf, Mirrormask and Y Tu Mama Tambien.

Criminal Minds, Game of Thrones, Once Upon a Time, Doctor Who, Parks and Rec, Scandal, Misfits, Vikings, most things that Anthony Bourdain is in, Orphan Black, etc. I love TV but yet still have not seen Breaking Bad

I like all food all the time and I will never ever be embarrassed about it. Specifically entire boxes of tuna helper doused with lemon juice and siracha.
The six things I could never do without
Coffee, chicken wings, feminism, a good hand lotion and pumpkin spice (sorry not sorry)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to work with others to dismantle the system so that we can all live in a truly just world free from oppression, hate and violence in all its forms. Also what I should eat for dinner and if my kids are clean enough to go out in public.

When I'm on OKC, I a) wonder why I lack the social skills necessary to meet people in real life and b) question why I don't live in Toronto.

Thinking about whether or not to go to law school
On a typical Friday night I am
Bloody Mary's
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can't ride a bike and used to wear a lot of jelly bracelets
You should message me if enjoy the brighter side of life but can hold a serious conversation that provokes true thought. If you would like to go and do something silly and spontaneous, but can sit and talk about the world for hours as well. If you're looking to enjoy life, but make it better for everyone

You're into radical politics and thought but not a pretentious jerk about it