47Walnut Creek, United States
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My self-summary
Life is a complex journey NOT centered around clubbing, vacationing, and shopping. If we begin contact/dating, I am NOT that guy who is scheming for a sexual encounter, rather lifelong partnership. (Obviously, bedroom gymnastics are fun then.)

"Somebody" by Depeche Mode describes a closer bond of two people sharing their joys AND sorrows together. I seek someone whose loyalty is not dependent on the money, joyful times, and harmony. Trouble comes -- accidents, arguments, unemployment, painful sacrifice for nobler pursuits. Disneyland marriage is not a real commitment; are you hardy enough for a real commitment?

I am non-materialist; family and God mean more to me. I buy cheap when it does not matter so that I can splurge on quality when it does matter. I try to eat healthy, natural foods and avoid artificial foods, flavors, scents, and toxic cleaners.

I have met too many diverse people to have much of an ego; I am more self-effacing. I am dressy and presentable when I need to be, but not an all-out type of guy. I buy flowers often for no other reason than they smell good and to indicate I love you.

I am confident, considerate, patient, deliberate, tolerant, and thrifty. I reflect, plan, and minimize my earth-print. For my part, I listen well, assuming that you communicate. I am proud of my policy of not divining what others are thinking. Rather than call it dependency, I believe that the individual strengths/roles of your soul-mate are valuable, without diminishing either partner.
What I’m doing with my life
I enjoy bicycling, snorkeling(&Scuba), ultimate(Frisbee), gaming.
I’m really good at
conscientious interactions with other people without judgment.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have a decent physique, butt and legs, pleasant baritone voice. I often play ignorant to elucidate what another person knows/believes. One does not learn when playing expert all the time. If you know more than I, great--share your thoughts. I have been told that I am quite insightful.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS: Pride and Prejudice, Screwtape Letters, Atlas Shrugged, Les Miserables, Lord of the Rings, Watership Down, Dr. Seuss, Bible, Book of Mormon
MOVIES: Wedding Crashers, A Few Good Men, Tombstone, Hitch, Happy Gilmore, Forrest Gump, Catch Me If You Can, Shawshank Redemption
TV: Amer Experience, Simpsons, Seinfeld, Friends, South Park(crude but provokes political/societal thought)
MUSIC: Taking Back Sunday, Brand New, All-American Rejects, U2, DM, No Doubt, Metallica, The Fray, My Chemical Romance, Evanescence
FOOD: Thai, Vietnamese, KoreanBBQ, MongolianBBQ, Sushi. Pro healthy, veggies, natural. Dark Chocolate. Avoid Oily Chinese/Mex
Six things I could never do without
Life is designed to deprive you of everything at least once.

Today, I watched classical crossover(opera) by a sweet 11yrold prodigy(Evancho) followed by a 2hr documentary on The Ramones. I am a bit put off by people who think that "their" music defines themselves. If you want to understand more of who I am--do not "sense my energies;" instead ask me, and I will give you a genuine answer.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
big decisions, but I never get 'buyer's remorse.'
On a typical Friday night I am
I do enjoy watching hockey and Red Sox, but not obsessively.
I am wary of anyone whose life revolves around spectator sports.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Too many partners fail to perform very well sexually. Even though I hold a strict standard of waiting for a lifetime relationship, please do not assume that I am an ignorant grunt in bed:
My partner's fulfillment is not an 'after'-thought.
I always last over an hour and keep good hygene down there.
Sex is an art of passion, lingerie, fantasy, position, setting, and emotional intimacy.
You should message me if
if you:
- have a warm personality, concerned for others, self-reflecting
- desire life-long relationship and consider many divorce a cop-out
- value anything virtuous, lovely, praiseworthy in others/yourself
- value and support Righteousness in the world
- eat healthy, exercise, consider your impact on the environment
The two of us