"Somebody" by Depeche Mode describes a closer bond of two people sharing their joys AND sorrows together. I seek someone whose loyalty is not dependent on the money, joyful times, and harmony. Trouble comes -- accidents, arguments, unemployment, painful sacrifice for nobler pursuits. Disneyland marriage is not a real commitment; are you hardy enough for a real commitment?
I am non-materialist; family and God mean more to me. I buy cheap when it does not matter so that I can splurge on quality when it does matter. I try to eat healthy, natural foods and avoid artificial foods, flavors, scents, and toxic cleaners.
I have met too many diverse people to have much of an ego; I am more self-effacing. I am dressy and presentable when I need to be, but not an all-out type of guy. I buy flowers often for no other reason than they smell good and to indicate I love you.
I am confident, considerate, patient, deliberate, tolerant, and thrifty. I reflect, plan, and minimize my earth-print. For my part, I listen well, assuming that you communicate. I am proud of my policy of not divining what others are thinking. Rather than call it dependency, I believe that the individual strengths/roles of your soul-mate are valuable, without diminishing either partner.
MOVIES: Wedding Crashers, A Few Good Men, Tombstone, Hitch, Happy Gilmore, Forrest Gump, Catch Me If You Can, Shawshank Redemption
TV: Amer Experience, Simpsons, Seinfeld, Friends, South Park(crude but provokes political/societal thought)
MUSIC: Taking Back Sunday, Brand New, All-American Rejects, U2, DM, No Doubt, Metallica, The Fray, My Chemical Romance, Evanescence
FOOD: Thai, Vietnamese, KoreanBBQ, MongolianBBQ, Sushi. Pro healthy, veggies, natural. Dark Chocolate. Avoid Oily Chinese/Mex
Today, I watched classical crossover(opera) by a sweet 11yrold prodigy(Evancho) followed by a 2hr documentary on The Ramones. I am a bit put off by people who think that "their" music defines themselves. If you want to understand more of who I am--do not "sense my energies;" instead ask me, and I will give you a genuine answer.
I am wary of anyone whose life revolves around spectator sports.
My partner's fulfillment is not an 'after'-thought.
I always last over an hour and keep good hygene down there.
Sex is an art of passion, lingerie, fantasy, position, setting, and emotional intimacy.
- have a warm personality, concerned for others, self-reflecting
- desire life-long relationship and consider many divorce a cop-out
- value anything virtuous, lovely, praiseworthy in others/yourself
- value and support Righteousness in the world
- eat healthy, exercise, consider your impact on the environment