30 Chattanooga, United States
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My self-summary
Hi, y'all. I'm a nerd of the science and science fiction sort with a hearty helping of the grammar sort. I am a free thinker and a progressive. The description for an INTJ sums me up pretty well. I'm a writer and a proponent of clear communication and personal reflection. I'm the mama of an old, fluffy kitty and a chubby, cute ball python.

I'm a bisexual, sapiosexual, solo polyamorist. My boyfriend's profile is JiveSkip. We're in a new relationship, and I'm going through a divorce as well so I'm not really looking for a new relationship at the moment, but I'll gladly talk to you about poly. I'm always up for meeting more poly or poly-friendly people.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in the billing department at a nice law firm in Chattanooga. I don't have much interest in law, but I do have an interest in financial freedom.

I've been toying lately with going back to school to be a forensic accountant. I would love to write a science textbook (probably with someone who has a PhD). I have a desire to do activism for LGBT and polyamory rights. I am also interested in breeding snakes.
I’m really good at
Making messes when I cook...or exist, in general. Making plans for the future. Organizing. Researching. Analyzing. Speaking in a Southern drawl with correct grammar.
The first things people usually notice about me
The Star Trek: The Next Generation combadge pin that I wear almost daily.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I have been reading a lot of nonfiction lately learning about crows and trees and life. I even have a couple of textbooks in queue - Intro to Microbiology and Intro to Statistics. My favorite book series of all time is Animorphs. Dating tip: if you know about it, you should probably mention that to me.

Podcasts: I listen to a lot of podcasts while I'm working. I keep up with Poly Weekly Podcast, Dogma Debate, The Dollop, The Talking Dead, Probably Science and The Thinking Atheist.

Movies: I don't watch movies as much as I watch TV shows on Netflix. But you can bet your ass I will see the Marvel movies within a couple weeks of their premieres.

Music: I doubt we have the same taste in music. It's pretty personal to me. I will admit that I listen to a lot of 90s pop. What can I say? Boy bands are crack.

TV Shows: I just got through all the Star Trek shows, and I've become the biggest Trekkie. Big fan of Supernatural, The Walking Dead, iZombie, and Lucifer (who kind of has my heart).

Food: I don't really cook, so much as concoct. My only technique is that if you are cooking something from a box that calls for margarine, use real butter instead and double the amount: it will be delish, promise.
The six things I could never do without
-Love, whether it be my love for friends and romantic partners or the connection I feel to all life and to all humanity.
-Kitties. I love all members of the feline family (especially, tigers!)
-My 2012 Chevy Sonic LTZ named Riker (told you I was a Trekkie)
-The moon.
-Learning. I will never stop researching or learning about everything in the universe.
-Freedom. I don't like bosses, closed doors, and social requirements.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I'm going to do with my life. What I might study in grad school. When I'll be able to finally do what I want in life. How I will ever help people/change the world. When I will finally have the courage and money to get the 4-5 tattoos I want. What I can do for the LGBT and poly communities.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably not what you're doing. I'm pretty introverted, so I don't generally like big crowds. Which is pretty ironic considering I'm poly.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I may be on the high functioning end of the autism spectrum - what used to be called aspergers. I am getting assessed in March.
You should message me if
-you have questions about what polyamory is (really, ask me! I'd love to talk about it)
-you're poly and want to talk to someone else who is (I love meeting other poly people!)
-you're intelligent or witty or nerdy
-you enjoy/need good conversation

**Please say something more than "Hey, what's up?" (or worse, spelled wrong). I don't do chitchat well, so give me some topics to discuss.**