Mon-Fri (and sometimes weekends) I work for a software company in the SF Bay Area
Wednesday nights I spend at Bondage a Go Go.
Weekends I'm either gaming (Computer, LARP and Tabletop), hanging out with my GF, going to conventions, or teaching myself how to code UNIX scripts.
In there also I'm working on the board of directors for Bondage a Go Go, I'm a professional art/fetish photographer (www.playvice.com), I'm dating when I can find time, I'm building/fixing computers, helping manage Wicked Grounds, going to shows/movies, and generally being a pain in the ass.
My primary relationship is Poly/Open and I am actively looking for another partner that enjoys some of my above interests.