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My self-summary
I'm Ezra: A sometimes aimless and goofy creature with thoughts I express in odd ways, a "writer," a citizen of my own little world, an only child, and a huge ball of cheese. (OKCupid says I'm less romantic than others but IT LIES.)

INFJ/INFP depending on the test. Also, Cancer stereotypes usually describe me pretty well...

I went to Tulane U. and lived in New Orleans for over 4 years. Moved back to Clemson (my hometown) December 2015. I am fully aware that I'm not the average Clemsonian but it's familiar here, the season of fall actually exists, and the rent is cheaper so I'm here at least until the end of 2016. Then probably onto Greenville or maybe another state?! (it's up in the air)

AND Yes I am a trans man i.e. my gender that I identify as is male. I still wear dresses and makeup and girly things sometimes because I like those things, and it doesn't change my gender.
What I’m doing with my life
As with many other millennials I've tried and failed to figure out what I could do with my degree. (English BA...oops?) I was super blessed to be able to go back to (online) school in a Court Reporting program. I'm looking to become a Live Closed Captioner for TV. (You can do more than just court reporting when you know how to type on a stenograph. They're pretty nifty.)

Being a freelance transcriptionist and video captioner currently.

I have a ton of travel goals. I definitely wanna go to Costa Rica and Iceland. I also wanna see more of the states. Like San Francisco, and Albuquerque, and Philadelphia, and Portland cause I'm hipster trash! Also Vancouver! And Toronto! SO MANY PLACES I WANNA GOO!
I’m really good at
"B.S.ing" written assignments and still doing well, thinking too hard, finding the subtext, stumbling into odd movies and songs, stumbling into physical objects, inventing weird band names, writing poetry, obsessing over movies, understanding where people are 'coming from,' staying up too long, sleeping too much, and making AMVs (MOST USELESS LIFE SKILL.)
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm awkward, appear to be high all the time (I rarely am) and give off "only child vibes" to some people?? Like I had a classmate predict that I was an only child when she did not know this about me, just based on how I interact with her and others.

I get a bit too excited when talking about things I like. People say I have pretty eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
~a clusterfuck of a list in progress, in no particular order~

Books: The Gargoyle - Andrew Davidson, House of the Scorpion - Nancy Farmer, Cassandra Clare, Mason & Dixon - Thomas Pynchon, Watchmen, Let the Right One In, Forbidden, Anne Rice, Push - Sapphire, You are so Cursed (for a sprinkling of middle school nostalgia AND A KIDDIE NOVEL WITH A TRANS GUY IN IT), The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, Doorways in the Sand - Roger Zelazny, Gender Outlaw - Kate Bornstein, We Need to Talk About Kevin

Movies: Pretty much everything by Alejandro Jodorowsky, Otto: Or, Up with Dead People; Tekkonkinkreet, Mind Game, The Animatrix (Studio 4C); Magnolia, My Own Private Idaho, Cry Baby, Breakfast on Pluto, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Requiem for a Dream, Pi, We Need to Talk About Kevin, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Mysterious Skin, Little Miss Sunshine, You and Me and Everyone We Know, Total Eclipse, Benny and Joon, Fantastic Mr. Fox, The Bucketlist, Let the Right One In, Gun Hill Road, This is the Place (except for the ending, fuck the ending of that movie), Attack the Block, The Babadook, The Taking of Deborah Logan, Grand Budapest Hotel, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Housebound, From Up on Poppy Hill and really all Studio Ghibli for that matter, also Satoshi Kon (Paprika, Tokyo Godfathers) but I gotta see more by him!, Tangerine

Shows: Orange is the New Black, Parks and Rec, Adventure Time, Transparent, Orphan Black, Gravitation, Loveless, The Devil is a Part-Timer, Attack on Titan, Knights of Sidonia, Bojack Horseman, Bob's Burgers (kind of, like when it's not offensive?)

Blaqk Audio, The Cruxshadows, afi, Diamond Rings/The D'Urbervilles/Matters (IS JOHN O'REGAN STILL MAKING MUSIC. IS HE ALIVE. SOMEONE TELL ME.), Sia, Kimbra, Janelle Monae, Marilyn Manson, Danny Brown, blink 182, Green Day, Jay Brannan, Joanna Newsom, CocoRosie, Ahnoni, The Cliks, Geo Wyeth, Fall Out Boy, Klaus Nomi, Bedlight for Blue Eyes, La Dispute, The Sound of Animals Fighting, The Number Twelve Looks Like You, Alesana, City and Colour, Panic at the Disco, Gotye, Passion Pit, Mykki Blanco, The Shondes, Venus de Mars, Beyonce, FKA Twigs, Le1f, Cakes da Killa, Jaden Smith (no for real he's a good rapper), Grouplove, Destroyer, Architecture in Helsinki, Twenty one pilots

Food: I like most things besides clams, mussels, and oysters. When I crave something it's most often Latin food or breakfast.
Favorite regional foods rn: SALVADORIAN and ETHIOPIAN OMGGGGG
(Where can I find these things in upstate SC. Someone help me.)
The six things I could never do without
- people who understand the weird ways I express things / people to mutually enjoy presences with / people to watch movies and strange YouTube videos with
- A GPS (my phone) cause I never know where I am
- background music all the damn time
- the internet... sorry, i'm a sad human
- cute aMINALS
- movies ;.;
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Gender, pretty people, the general oddity of the way existence came to be and the other ways things could have happened and how strange it is that everything fell into place so perfectly to make things just how they are now, religious possibilities or the lack of them, are ghosts real?, is there an afterlife?, trying to write something good, movies, things I read, things I'm worried about, where I'll live eventually, lotsa shit.
On a typical Friday night I am
One of my favorite kinds of Friday nights is seeing a band I love with people I love, and then standing around by the tour bus like a groupie waiting to meet the band after the show.

But not EVERY Friday. Usually - give me food, a comfy blanket, a good movie, and a nice cuddly person to see it with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm Autistic which I am honestly cool with but the structure of society makes things harder for me and it may be a while before I can fully support myself.

I also have an anxiety disorder, and I struggle with phone calls for casual conversations.

So basically I'm not independent or sane :) ~Join the party~
You should message me if
You look forward to weird movies and falling into YouTube holes. Being lazy is okay. In fact, it's enjoyable.
You want a concert/event/cafe buddy.
You enjoy being in the presence of a weird lil feminist nerd.
You live wherever the heck and you want an internet buddy to talk about ~deep shit~ with, and/or someone to visit you one of these days on a road trip.