I am attracted to intellect , brilliance , spirit , power , sophistication and a dose of crazy . I am not looking for casual sex . I am here just in case I meet someone interesting that I otherwise wouldn't have crossed paths with .
I understand that what is actually good for us usually comes in a very different form than what we request on our "ideal partner list " ...so I won't indulge in describing what I find physically attractive on a man . I will, however, say that if your mind , your personality and our conversations don't get me hot and bothered , your looks ( no matter how "impressive" ) will certainly not achieve that . An interesting , worldly , distinguished , stylish man gets my attention way more often than someone who just has a pretty face and a gym body . I believe that a good match for me comes in a strong , sexy, outspoken , interesting , informed , articulate , solid Alpha male with a very high libido , but then again I am willing to be proven wrong.
Humongous turn offs: lack of passion ( both in bed and in life in general ) complacency , ignorance and being unreliable .
Turn ons : a man whose presence in a room can't be ignored , humor , assertiveness .
On a lighter note , I love to read , watch good (usually art ) films , go to museums , explore new restaurants, cook and dance (all sorts of genres).
Working out and the pursuit of an overall healthy lifestyle has ( surprisingly ) become an important part of my life , a partner who is on the same page would be nice .
Being straightforward and upfront.
Making people laugh.
My confidence / the way I carry myself
My deep voice
Albert Camus "l'etranger"
Jonathan Coe "what a carve up" (and pretty much all his books)
M.Kundera "the unbearable lightness of being"
David Mitchell " Cloud Atlas"
Meir Shalev "a pigeon and a boy"
Lars von Trier Dogville, Tarkovsky "nostalgia",
"the piano teacher, "8 women",Almodovar films, Krzysztof Kieślowski : "bleu, blanc, rouge"
Mike Leigh films, hall ashby "the landlord", "the hours",
"milk", win wenders' "Pina" and "buena vista social club " and so many more !!!
World music (lots of it )
A roof over my head
Someone to Love
Someone to love me
My relationships , my career .