I am attracted to intellect , brilliance , spirit , power and a dose of crazy . I am not on here for sexual encounters . My batteries are full in that department . I am here just in case I meet someone interesting that I otherwise wouldn't have crossed paths with . I have nothing against casual sex , but that's not where I am at right now.Bottom line : If I can't see myself wanting to spend time with you a few months down the line then I will not spend time texting , talking , getting to know you just as a means to procrastinate or as a cure for boredom. I am busy, I hope you are too .
I understand that what is actually good for us usually comes in a very different form than what we request on our "ideal partner list " ...so I won't indulge in describing what I find physically attractive on a man . I will, however, say that if your mind , your personality and our conversations don't get me hot and bothered , your looks ( no matter how impressive ) will certainly not achieve that . I believe that a good match for me comes in a strong , sexy, outspoken , interesting , informed , articulate , solid Alpha male with a high libido , but then again I am willing to be proven wrong.
Humongous turn offs: lack of passion ( both in bed and in life in general ) complacency , ignorance , issues
with punctuality and being unreliable .
Turn ons : a man whose presence in a room can't be ignored , humor , assertiveness .
On a lighter note , I love to read , watch good (usually art ) films , go to museums , explore new restaurants, cook and dance (all sorts of genres).
Being straightforward and upfront.
Making people laugh.
My eyes .
My height .
My confidence .
My coy smile .
My deep voice .
Albert Camus "l'etranger"
Jonathan Coe "what a carve up" (and pretty much all his books)
M.Kundera "the unbearable lightness of being"
David Mitchell " Cloud Atlas"
Meir Shalev "a pigeon and a boy"
Lars von Trier Dogville, Tarkovsky "nostalgia",
"the piano teacher, "8 women",Almodovar films, Krzysztof Kieślowski : "bleu, blanc, rouge"
Mike Leigh films, hall ashby "the landlord", "the hours",
"milk", win wenders' "Pina" and "buena vista social club " and so many more !!!
Light jazz /soul
World music (lots of it )
A roof over my head
Someone to Love
Someone to love me
My relationships , my career .
Or watching a movie at the movie theatre...or checking out a new restaurant or cocktail lounge (bring on the retro lifestyle in NYC )Or at home reading a great book , sipping a great glass of Chateauneuf du Pape and thinking ...