I am genderfluid, pansexual, polyamorous, and kinky.
I am ambitious, quirky, and sensual.
I am currently dating 2 people, including GeekyQueerBear plus another who's not on OkCupid. My plate is currently full but I'm always open to meeting new friends and members of my community. I have discovered that I am a social creature and without regular social contact I lose my will to thrive. If you're interested in a mutually supportive relationship of any kind, please take the time to message me.
If you intend to contact me, please read my entire profile before sending a message.
I am currently working on changing my worldview and my perceptions of social relationships. I am trying to be conscious of the pain and mistrust that I have learned. I am also trying to surround myself with sincere, loving people.
I like to think of myself as pretty talented with the sensual side of human behavior, especially snuggling.
A new musical obsession is Walk Off The Earth. I like most music, except anything extreme. Very little metal, very little country, very little rap. Definitely like "girly" rock, folk rock, and so on. Artists I can actually think of include Jonathan Coulton, The Pillows, Liz Phair, KT Tunstall, Pink, Lady Gaga, Prodigy, Ben Harper, Jason Mraz.
I prefer ethnic foods for the most part. I enjoy cooking and trying foods and flavors that I haven't tried before. I believe there's a special connection shared between people when they cook and eat together. It's one way I show my love for someone.
My reading material is usually along the non-fiction line. I have an insatiable thirst for new knowledge of all kinds. Generally I gravitate toward "How-to" material rather than history/facts. Nowadays I mostly read blogs for pleasure/work and books about therapy. The topics I prefer include beauty, sexuality, feminism, and web comics.
Love from my family, friends, and romantic partners. I've become quite the extrovert in recent years and I truly thrive on the connections with my loved ones. Without love in my life I get tired and depressed.
My two cats. Definitely don't know what I'd do without my furry snugglebugs.
I am of the internet generation - I wouldn't survive very long without a high speed internet connection (and either my android powered smart phone or Macbook).
A clean, quiet place to think. In order to make important life decisions and reconnect with myself, I need a tidy and quiet place to meditate regularly. Without this I get mighty moody, and nobody likes that!
Condoms, gloves, saran wrap and lube - I'm a huge sexual health advocate and insist on safer sex practices at all times.