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My self-summary
I am a SSBBW. You are warned. If you send me hate messages I will ignore you. Yep, people send me hate just because I'm fat. Welcome to humanity.

I am not in school, but if I could choose? I would like to eventually be an author or a book editor. It stems from a love of reading and the written word. I don't claim to be extremely well read, but books have always been my best friend and I love to write.

I'm a Navy brat and have lived various places in the US including Virginia, Texas, Illinois, and Indiana. I love to listen to music, watch movies and have interesting discussions. I'm not an outdoor person, unfortunately, but I can appreciate the beauty of it. I'm pretty hip on pop culture though I'm not a slave to it. Angelina Jolie and Adele are two women I look up to and absolutely adore.

I haven't had many relationships but I'm firm in my beliefs. I want a man or woman who is strong and, even if we might not always agree, will respect my opinions like I'll respect theirs. Body type is not important to me. I'm attracted to a person's soul, not how they look on the outside. On that note, I won't lie about how I look. I'm a big girl. I'm working on losing a little weight and being more healthy, but I will never be a size 6. I enjoy curves and I like food, so if you prefer smaller girls? Thank you for reading, but you should probably look elsewhere (unless you would just like to be friends, then feel free to message me and tell me so).

Above all else I would absolutely love someone I could talk to, someone who will make me laugh, and someone who is able to put up with my quirkiness and slight addiction to the internet. I would love to be a housewife. I am a good cook, love trying out new recipes, and am pretty good with new foods and cleaning up.
I’m really good at
Reading and writing! I love to write. I'm also pretty good at remembering things about pop culture. I also love to talk and get to know other people and discuss things with them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love too many books to name, but my absolute favorite two are "The History of Love" by Nicole Krauss and "Blood and Chocolate" by Annette Curtis Klause (please don't watch the mockery of a film adaptation, it's horrible). I also enjoy books by Kelley Armstrong and others. Shows I watch include Supernatural, Revolution, Sleepy Hollow, The Vampire Diaries, Nashville, and The Voice.

With music I tend to be rather eclectic. I enjoy many bands/musicians such as Breaking Benjamin, Three Days Grace, Nine Inch Nails, Tool, 30 Seconds To Mars, Britney Spears, Muse, Adele, Christina Perri, Matchbox 20, David Bowie, Florence + the Machine, Katy Perry, Flyleaf, Kelly Clarkson, Kidneythieves, KT Tunstall, Lady Gaga, Lifehouse, Miranda Lambert, The Weepies, and Say anything. My ultimate favorites are Eisley, Trespassers William, and This Day & Age, though.

I'm just as eclectic with my taste in movies as I am in music. I truly love films that touch me. Some of my favorites are Gia, Pieces of April, The Notebook (I know, I know), Underworld, Tomb Raider (both), Paranormal Activity (all), The Thing (the original), Bram Stoker's Dracula, Lars and the Real Girl , X-Men: First Class, Fish Tank, Deadgirl, Drive, Fight Club, Blue Valentine, Easy A, and Girl, Interrupted. Just know that list is only scratching the surface of my love for many, many films.

As for food? Obviously I love it. Duh. I like Italian foods and tend to stay away from very hot or spicy things. I like interesting salads and could eat chicken until the day I die.
Six things I could never do without
Family, entertainment, water, my dogs, internet, my stuffed bear that I've had since I was two.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm afraid that I'll never find someone who will love me AND be attracted to me (there is a difference). That's something I'm most afraid of, and yet I've come to certain terms with it. I'm alright with possibly living the rest of my life without having a partner to share it with, but would it be wonderful if I could find one. I would love to find a life with a man that would allow me to keep house.
You should message me if
You should message me if you think we could connect! I love talking to people and I'm not just looking for something romantic. Romance would be nice, but I would honestly just liked to connect with more people.
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