fallingup_free
43 Quincy, United States
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My self-summary
After a long, hard day at work as a counselor/clinician, I want to come home to a relationship based on kindness, good communication, good sex, reliability, and wonder. It's important to be in a good place prior to being in a relationship. I laugh a lot, so should you. I have 2 grad degrees and doing my best, so I'm looking for someone educated and making the most of it, too.

Lately, I've been into acupuncture, yoga, meditation, cycling and swimming. Just lost 45 lbs...happy about that. :)

"You can connect from all kinds of places- energetic harmony, sexual alchemy, intellectual alignment- but they won’t sustain love over a lifetime. You need a thread that goes deeper, that moves below and beyond the shifting sands of compatibility. That thread is fascination- a genuine fascination with someone’s inner world, the way they organize reality, the way they hearticulate their feelings, the unfathomable and bottomless depths of their being. To hear their soul cry out to you again and again, and to never lose interest in what it is trying to convey. If there is that, then there will still be love when the body sickens, when the sexuality fades, when the perfection projection is long shattered. If there is that, you will swim in love’s waters until the very last breath."

(~an excerpt from 'An Uncommon Bond')
What I’m doing with my life
Listen! It's my anthem.

http://youtu.be/b0C6YYLo_Jc
I’m really good at
-Talking and sorting things out

-Bringing out the best in others, even if that means assisting them through dark stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
:::Optimism
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite getaways: North Woodstock, NH; Kancamagus highway; sailing down the Saco River; wading in the Pemigewasset River; Conway and North Conway, NH

I love Food!: Thai, Japanese, Indian, Cuban, Mexican, American, Ethiopian, Italian, Greek, Afghan

Radio: I enjoy local radio stations NPR/wbur (Dear Sugar, On Point, this American life, the moth, TED radio hour, Fresh air), college radio, etc.

Music: Jon Anderson; prog rock, math rock, psychedelic rock; Yes, Battles, Rarebird; early music, world music, bluegrass, roots, Americana; Suitcase Junket (local band)

Humor: Amy Schumer, Ellen, Zach Galfinakis, Jimmy Fallon, Lena Dunham, Tina Fey, Amy Poehler, Will Ferrell, Danny Kaye, Harold Lloyd, Robin Williams

Influences: Thich Nhat Hahn, Freire, feminists of this generation, writers and optimists, people infuencing current thought about education, identity development, and social justice, and thinkers who utilize many disciplines to make creative contributions (i.e., Peter Levine)

Art: Wyeth art, abstract art, museums/galleries, Open Studios...

Culture: i love so many cultures...
The six things I could never do without
1. Love, luscious love
2. 5 siblings
3. Conversation
4. Title IX
5. Dasein (yes, Heidegger)
6. Naps
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-:- the next fun thing...
On a typical Friday night I am
It varies: out with friends to dinner, planning a date, or going solo, maybe watching a movie or relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am very intimate & romantic!
You should message me if
...if you're traditional with a twist...
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