I am shy, independent, and creative.
I'm looking for a man who's equally independent, and financially secure with an eye toward retirement. He should see the benefit of companionship but still have his own life. I'm not interested in someone who's far away. I'm settled where I am, and don't intend to relocate, and I don't have any interest in carrying on a long distance relationship. If you're half-way across the country, I can't hold you at night.
I'm also not interested in anyone who can't hold up their obligations. If we make a date, either keep it or cancel. I'm a big girl, I can handle the rejection. Don't just leave me hanging. You don't like when it happens to you, so have a little courtesy. Don't be a coward.
I don't subject folks to my musical taste, because I tend towards bagpipes and fiddles. If someone nicked my iPod, they'd probably toss it because of all the screeching.
Movies - I don't really watch a lot of movies. I probably should.
Good food and wine
Comfort food and beer.
Yarn and fiber.
My loom(s) and spinning wheel(s)
My family, even though they're far away.
However, if you're overly-religious, you should take a pass. I'm not, and I don't intend to convert.