40 Hamtramck, United States
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My self-summary
Meyers-Briggs INTP, liberal to libertarian (steadily drifting liberal), easygoing, professional computer programmer, amateur musician (violin, guitar, bass guitar, mandolin, and I sing some) and cook, married to mogwar2 with a newly-adult son, polyamorous, long hair

If you're wondering if we'd have anything to talk about, I'm interested in religion (not as a participant), science, philosophy, humor, sex and anything I have listed in the paragraph above.

I'm listed as bi, but I really do prefer feminine features. MTF trans (including pre-op) is not a problem as long as you won't tower over me, but I think my interest in men is mostly limited to threesomes that also include women. Sex with men is cool, but I've found that physical affection just feels odd.

Depending on who I find here, my wife might be interested in joining in, but don't count on it. If you're specifically looking for couples, we could consider a double-date, but she has no shortage of people interested in her. We live with her boyfriend, and a quad could eventually be nice, but we're not holding out for one.

Oh, and my picture hasn't changed in the ten+ years I've had an account here. I really should get a new one uploaded sometime.

I am calm, curious, and eccentric
What I’m doing with my life
Working full time, getting drawn into my wife's volunteer flights of fancy, learning to write and record music on my computer
I’m really good at
Computers, data, music (mostly string instruments, but I can sing some), cooking, oral sex
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair, probably
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Jean Auel's Earth Children series, Terry Goodkind's Wizard's First Rule and sequels, Thinking in C++, Piers Anthony's Incarnations of Immortality series, Tom Clancy's The Hunt for Red October through The Sum of All Fears, The Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, Guns Germs and Steel

Movies: Seven, The Gods Must be Crazy, Batman, The Lord of the Rings, Volunteers, Love Actually, Harry Potter, Eurotrip

Music: Ben Folds, Metallica, Danny Elfman, Nevermore, Queensryche, Savatage, Jethro Tull, Vanessa Carleton

Food: Mostly Chinese, Mexican, Italian and misc. American standards

TV: Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Dexter, Bones, Good Eats, Dollhouse
The six things I could never do without
music, family, the Internet, oral sex, designing stuff, oxygen
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Software design, guitar playing, guitar design, data structures, cooking, songwriting

...and how to mentally get into being a dom, since it was never really my thing until I realized most women attracted to long-haired men seem to be subs, including my wife. Drawn-out teasing is a good start, but not enough.
On a typical Friday night I am
Home with my family, or at my parents house with my family
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Contact informtion.

My email address is OKCupid@WilliamCleveland.Org. PstScrpt is my username most places (since I decided faustus was way too pretentious), including FetLife, Yahoo, LiveJournal and Reddit.
You should message me if
You want to talk, you want to date, you want sex, you want to learn to make creme brulee' -- whichever.

Also, I'm really not terribly age conscious. When I browse through listings, I generally set the filter to older than my son and younger than my parents.