First things first. I am not single. I am attached to a beautiful woman but we have an open relationship and have had such from the start. We don't do drama.
So while I'm not necessarily looking for a new relationship on the side, I am open to whatever the universe may throw my way.
I'm open to everything from a FWB situation to a full on secondary partner, with something somewhere in the middle being the ideal.
And for the record, this isn't about finding a mythical third (unicorn) for me and my partner. Although I am certainly not averse to it, as she is into women at least as much as I am. Also, any real, *actual* Unicorns are also welcome to message me. I promise I won't drive you into the sea with the Red Bull at your back.
I'm pretty heavily tattooed and am attracted to same, although that's certainly not a requirement. Nature and animals are very important to me and sort of form the core of what spiritual leanings that I do have.
I am animated, happy, and occasionally verbose.
I will never have a beard. The current hipster trend of adopting "homeless man chique" has never appealed to me in any way. Also, I'm incapable of growing a beard. Sometimes, genetics smile upon you.
I currently manage a hobby game store. Yes, that means I sell board games, D&D books and magic cards to nerds all day. And I love it. I get to go to work every day and SHARE FUN with people. Are some of our customers poorly socialized weirdos? Sure, but most of them are fantastic people. And ya, know, glass houses and all.
I recently moved into a new place after a few years of transition, and I'm hoping to start up my hobby of carving wooden masks again soon. Something that I was trying to focus on when I decided to disassemble my life instead. :)
Once upon a time I was an anthropology student, and I still am, in my own way.
I'm also really good at eating Haribo Gummy bears.
Sometimes people also seem surprised when an articulate, well reasoned human being starts speaking out of my body. *shrug*
Movies: The Shawshank Redemption, The Lord of the Rings, Braveheart, Dark Crystal, The Fountain, Moulin Rouge, The Prestige, Baraka, Dances with Wolves.. too many to list here
TV: I don't *really* watch TV. Hell, haven't had cable for almost 20 years. That being said, some stuff has made its way through to me. Carnivale, Game of Thrones (big fan of the books), The Office (original UK series only), Sherlock.
Music: PETER GABRIEL, James, Depeche Mode, VNV Nation, Midnight Oil, early Levellers, Tool, Afro-Celt Sound System, The Sounds, Shiny Toy Guns. I'm into a bit of everything, really. Although I have no love for modern R&B or modern Country. That being said.. Stevie Wonder? Johnny Cash? You bet.
Food: fresh seafood, sashimi, really good fried chicken.
2. Books (I have far too many. It's a problem, really.)
3. Animals (Any and all. I have a cat named Aslan and I used to breed Honduran Milk Snakes, of which I still have quite a few. The cat is named Aslan not so much for looking like a lion as it is for thinking he's Jesus.)
4. Love (yeah, cheezy I know. But my brother once told me that he thought I was addicted to falling in love. Probably not far off the mark.)
5. coffee (my only chemical vice really)
6. trees (the only reason I could never live in the southwest.)
...and going back to Bali. I left a part of myself there, methinks.