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My self-summary
The name is Thomas William Graham III (googling me is pretty much useless btw). My friends encouraged me to make this profile since i dont get out that much right now to see people.

So... here I am. I'm a quiet, analytical thinker. I read a lot, play video games a lot, and spend a lot of time in my own head space. I really enjoy companionship and love to spend time with those i love. I'm fiercely loyal, generally moral with out being preachy, and considerate to the people I let get close to me.

I have a good sense of humor and I entertain myself with a lot of funny little thoughts that I'd be chagrin to have to admit out loud. I'm not afraid to make a fool of myself if that's the order of business for the day, but I wouldn't make a fool of myself for myself. It generally takes a group of my friend's idiocy to get me there. And they're so very prone to idiocy.

The most important thing to get across on this dating site is that I don't want to date. Ideally, I'd like to get to know a compatible person for a long term, committed relationship. I'm romantic and sensitive and know that I have a lot to offer someone if they're right for me.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm enjoying time with my friends who are kind of like my family, playing video games, Table top games, working out, and looking at schools to head back to for Network Administration.
I’m really good at
Breaking systems, optimizing systems, etc. I'm a masterful strategist, not to brag. I seem to have a photographic memory for architecture. I notice the little things about people and places. I'm really good at dodging questions like what I'm really good at.

I really enjoy juggling crystal sticks, and in my profile pics you can see a few where I'm juggling sticks on fire. I enjoy geocacheing and I'm pretty good at finding difficult to find ones, not that you geomuggles would know what it is.
The first things people usually notice about me
My female friends often comment on my blue eyes.
"The third?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I read quite a lot. I read mostly the fantasy genre but will also read other good books upon recommendation. My favorite authors are, Terry Goodkind, Terry Brooks, Ann McCaffrey, James Mallory, Mercedes Lackey.

Movies: I'll see just about anything if the company is good, but my own favorites are The Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Inception, How to train Your Dragon, Matrix, A Knight's tale, Evolution, and Repo: The Genetic Opera.

Shows: I don't have cable, so most of what I watch is on Netflix or on-line, but I do like Firefly, Adventure Time, Futurama, pretty much all anime (ok, ok, most anime).

Music: Anything but Rap or Country. I like electronica best, and lately I've been listening to the Tron Soundtrack Reconfigured a lot.

Food: My bane, my enemy, my poison. I'm allergic to gluten and it sucks and limits my diet. I do love Chinese food and Mexican food and I miss bread, a lot. When my friend's eat it, I stare at it longingly. It can get awkward... but its the bread... not the friend.
Six things I could never do without
There are a lot of things I can do with out, so coming up with six things I can't do with out proved to be difficult. Challenge accepted (though my answer is a bit of a stretch on some of the list):
My friends
Intellectual stimulation
And sadly yes my computer.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My mind is always going, and I'm often thinking of a few things at once, but my prevalent thought chain is about what I'm going to do next, most of the time. I'm seeking a partner, which is why I'm on this site, and I have a feeling that I wouldn't have to constantly fill my days with plans and activities to distract me if I found a good match, then I would have someone to plan with me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing video games, watching anime, going out or playing dnd with the friends. I love to do group activities but haven't had much of a chance recently.
You should message me if
If anything peaked your interest in my profile and you want to ask a question or talk.
Also... Don't be afraid to message me, I like a women that takes the initiative. It's half the battle with me ;)
The two of us