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My self-summary
Femme-inist killjoy and man-eating siren. Cat Lady.™ Introvert. Sex worker. Book-smart stoner. Non-monogamous deviant.

I buy too many books. I can't keep secrets. I don't like crowds or being around people for extended periods of time. I'm a creature of habit. I'll probably never sleep over--I like my own bed way too much. I sometimes eat peanut butter out of the jar. I don't like Drake. That's right, I said it.

I'm good at conversation, am a good listener and know how to communicate. I say what I mean, and mean what I say. I'm earnest and genuine, though I suppose that sometimes comes off as intense. I'm easy-going and tend to go with the flow. I prefer to stay in rather than go out but that doesn't mean I don't like going out now and again. Movie, drinks at a pub, that sort of thing. I talk with my hands a lot. I only recently learned how to play poker, but I suspect I'm terrible at it as my face is too expressive for its own good.

Doing the ethical non-monogamy thing with Trap-a-holic. We've been living together for the last eleven years. He does the best Murderface impression ever.

I'm looking for something ongoing, and preferably kinky, though not required (you're the top). Casual and fun is what I'm going for; I'm not looking for a serious relationship at this point in my life. If meeting up once a week or every couple of weeks to hang out and watch movies/listen to music, smoke weed (optional) or go out for delicious eats and/or drinks sounds like your idea of a good time, hit me up.

Life goals: learn to pick locks, learn to roll a joint one-handed, learn how to wield eyeliner
What I’m doing with my life

Working on a PhD in the Gender, Feminist and Women's studies program at York.

Supplementing my meagre TA pay with sex work. I mention this because it's my job, not because I'm trying to solicit you. Think about it, this would be a pretty inefficient way of attracting clients and the first rule of hooking is money up front, always. If I wanted your money, you'd know it.

I’m really good at
rolling joints, naming cats
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair (which is shaved on both sides and long on top) or maybe my nails because they're basically talons.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

Anything by Roald Dahl, the Princess Bride, Of Love and Other Demons by Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Meat Cake comix and Love and Rockets.

Love sci-fi, fantasy and magic realism.

My theoretical/academic interests are poststructural feminist theory, embodiment, desire, sex work, and disability. My primary research interests involve the lived experiences of disabled sex workers. I dabble in histories of sexuality and feminist occultism.


The Big Lebowski, Only Lovers Left Alive, Moonrise Kingdom, Ghostbusters, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Dawn of the Dead, Shaun of the Dead, Army of Darkness, Oldboy, Audition, The Descent, Little Miss Sunshine, Terminator 2, Total Recall, The Royal Tenenbaums, Rushmore, Amelie, Harold and Maude, The Nightmare Before Christmas, Secretary, Planet Terror, The Addams Family, Dead Alive, Monster Squad, Memento, Hot Fuzz, Code 46, Fallen Angels, Antichrist, Thirst, Wet Hot American Summer, The Shining, Session 9, Drive, etc.

Vampire Diaries, The Originals, The 100, Orphan Black, Brooklyn Nine Nine, Bob's Burgers, Better Call Saul, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Twin Peaks, Rick and Morty, Peepshow, Stranger Things

I will listen to just about anything once. I haven't met a genre of music I didn't like but I tend to gravitate towards 80's goth/post-punk, hip-hop/rap and pop music with a smattering of alt-country. Oh and I like 60's girl groups, Dolly Parton and Patsy Cline.

PJ Harvey, The Cure, Joy Division, The Smiths, Kanye West, The Weeknd, Rihanna, Nina Simone, Fugees, Heart, David Bowie, Prince, Grimes, FKA Twigs, Kendrick Lamar, Juicy J, Meek Mill, Big L, MC Lyte, The Stooges

FOOD: Anything with goat cheese, Reubens, Haagen Daz chocolate peanut butter ice cream, asparagus, edamame and pickled eggplant. I rarely eat meat (my partner is vegetarian). I will actually eat just about anything though. As long as there's no cilantro. That shit tastes like soap.

The six things I could never do without
a cat.
a cat.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
stuff I should read; school; what movie to watch; food I'd like to eat but won't go to the effort of making/getting; kinky sex/ bdsm
On a typical Friday night I am
most likely doing one of the following:



*hanging out with this guy: Trap-a-holic


The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I once got paid to make fart noises.
You should message me if
you are a nerd-geek with decent politics who is cool with my pot-smoking, hooker ways. Preferably over 35.

Bonus: you're also sexually depraved.