I buy too many books. I can't keep secrets. I don't like crowds or being around people for extended periods of time. I'm a creature of habit. I'll probably never sleep over--I like my own bed way too much. I sometimes eat peanut butter out of the jar. I don't like Drake. That's right, I said it.
I'm good at conversation, am a good listener and know how to communicate. I say what I mean, and mean what I say. I'm earnest and genuine, though I suppose that sometimes comes off as intense. I'm easy-going and tend to go with the flow. I prefer to stay in rather than go out but that doesn't mean I don't like going out now and again. Movie, drinks at a pub, that sort of thing. I talk with my hands a lot. I only recently learned how to play poker, but I suspect I'm terrible at it as my face is too expressive for its own good.
Doing the ethical non-monogamy thing with Trap-a-holic. We've been living together for the last eleven years. He does the best Murderface impression ever.
I'm looking for something ongoing, and preferably kinky, though not required (you're the top). Casual and fun is what I'm going for; I'm not looking for a serious relationship at this point in my life. If meeting up once a week or every couple of weeks to hang out and watch movies/listen to music, smoke weed (optional) or go out for delicious eats and/or drinks sounds like your idea of a good time, hit me up.
Working on a PhD in the Gender, Feminist and Women's studies program at York.
Supplementing my meagre TA pay with sex work. I mention this because it's my job, not because I'm trying to solicit you. Think about it, this would be a pretty inefficient way of attracting clients and the first rule of hooking is money up front, always. If I wanted your money, you'd know it.
Anything by Roald Dahl, the Princess Bride, Of Love and Other Demons by Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Meat Cake comix and Love and Rockets.
Love sci-fi, fantasy and magic realism.
My theoretical/academic interests are poststructural feminist theory, embodiment, desire, sex work, and disability. My primary research interests involve the lived experiences of disabled sex workers. I dabble in histories of sexuality and feminist occultism.
The Big Lebowski, Only Lovers Left Alive, Moonrise Kingdom, Ghostbusters, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Dawn of the Dead, Shaun of the Dead, Army of Darkness, Oldboy, Audition, The Descent, Little Miss Sunshine, Terminator 2, Total Recall, The Royal Tenenbaums, Rushmore, Amelie, Harold and Maude, The Nightmare Before Christmas, Secretary, Planet Terror, The Addams Family, Dead Alive, Monster Squad, Memento, Hot Fuzz, Code 46, Fallen Angels, Antichrist, Thirst, Wet Hot American Summer, The Shining, Session 9, Drive, etc.
Vampire Diaries, The Originals, The 100, Orphan Black, Brooklyn Nine Nine, Bob's Burgers, Better Call Saul, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Twin Peaks, Rick and Morty, Peepshow, Stranger Things
I will listen to just about anything once. I haven't met a genre of music I didn't like but I tend to gravitate towards 80's goth/post-punk, hip-hop/rap and pop music with a smattering of alt-country. Oh and I like 60's girl groups, Dolly Parton and Patsy Cline.
PJ Harvey, The Cure, Joy Division, The Smiths, Kanye West, The Weeknd, Rihanna, Nina Simone, Fugees, Heart, David Bowie, Prince, Grimes, FKA Twigs, Kendrick Lamar, Juicy J, Meek Mill, Big L, MC Lyte, The Stooges
FOOD: Anything with goat cheese, Reubens, Haagen Daz chocolate peanut butter ice cream, asparagus, edamame and pickled eggplant. I rarely eat meat (my partner is vegetarian). I will actually eat just about anything though. As long as there's no cilantro. That shit tastes like soap.
*hanging out with this guy: Trap-a-holic
Bonus: you're also sexually depraved.