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My self-summary
Introverted grad student and part-time sex worker. I live with my partner and two cats (we're polyamorous/non-monogamous).

I'm mostly a homebody and a creature of habit. But I'm also fun and weird and probably talk too much. I like reading, playing video games, skateboarding, horror movies and science fiction.

I have absolutely zero tolerance for bullshit though. I know how to communicate my needs/wants and I expect anyone I date/fuck to be able to as well.

Currently, I'm on the prowl for a kinky play partner (the Dom to my sub), or failing that, a vanilla play partner for casual hangouts and sexual escapades.

Life goals: learn to pick locks, learn to roll a joint one-handed, learn how to wield eyeliner
What I’m doing with my life

Working on a PhD.

Supplementing my meagre TA pay with sex work. I mention this because it's my job, not because I'm trying to solicit you. Think about it, this would be a pretty inefficient way of attracting clients and the first rule of hooking is money up front, always. If I wanted your money, you'd know it.

I’m really good at
rolling joints, naming cats, maintaining a thin veneer of functioning adulthood
The first things people usually notice about me
No idea. Probably the monochromatic nature of my wardrobe (all black most of the time), or my hair (undercut!)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food


The Witches by Roald Dahl
The Princess Bride by William Goldman
One Hundred Years of Solitude by Gabriel Garcia Marquez
Whores in History by Nickie Roberts
The Day of the Triffids by John Wyndham
Neuromancer by William Gibson

Generally, I read any and all science fiction, though I tend to be drawn more towards dystopian sci fi, feminist spec fic and magic realism stuff that isn't necessarily sci-fi.

My theoretical/academic interests are feminist theory, postructuralism, queer theory, sexuality, embodiment, desire, representation, histories of sexuality, feminist histories (esp. of prostitution/disability), sex work/sexual economies, emotional/affective/sexual labour, performance/performativity, and disability. Oh and Foucauldian discourse analysis. I love that shit.


The Big Lebowski, Only Lovers Left Alive, Moonrise Kingdom, Ghostbusters, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Dawn of the Dead, Shaun of the Dead, Army of Darkness, Oldboy, Audition, The Descent, Little Miss Sunshine, Terminator 2, Total Recall, The Royal Tenenbaums, Rushmore, Amelie, Harold and Maude, The Nightmare Before Christmas, Secretary, Planet Terror, The Addams Family, Dead Alive, Monster Squad, Memento, Hot Fuzz, Code 46, Fallen Angels, Antichrist, Thirst, Wet Hot American Summer, The Shining, Session 9, Drive, etc.

I watch a lot of tv shows. I also watch a lot of shit.

Vampire Diaries, The Originals, The 100, Orphan Black, Brooklyn Nine Nine, Bob's Burgers, Better Call Saul, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Twin Peaks, Rick and Morty, Peepshow, Stranger Things, Heartless, 3%, Glitch

I will listen to just about anything once. I haven't met a genre of music I didn't like but I tend to gravitate towards 80's goth/post-punk, hip-hop/rap and pop music with a smattering of alt-country. Oh and I like 60's girl groups, Dolly Parton and Patsy Cline.

PJ Harvey, The Cure, Joy Division, The Smiths, Kanye West, The Weeknd, Rihanna, Nina Simone, Fugees, Heart, David Bowie, Prince, Grimes, FKA Twigs, Kendrick Lamar, Juicy J, Meek Mill, Big L, MC Lyte, The Stooges

FOOD: Anything with goat cheese, Reubens, Haagen Daz chocolate peanut butter ice cream, asparagus, edamame and pickled eggplant. I rarely eat meat (my partner is vegetarian). I will actually eat just about anything though. As long as there's no cilantro. That shit tastes like soap.

Six things I could never do without
a cat.
a cat.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
stuff I should read; school; what movie to watch; food I'd like to eat but won't go to the effort of making/getting; kinky sex/ bdsm
On a typical Friday night I am
most likely doing one of the following:



*hanging out with my partner


The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I once got paid to make fart noises.
You should message me if
-you're not an asshole (if you have to ask, you probably are)
-you're an experienced dom with a penchant for curvy nerds (dom part optional)
-you are open to non-monogamy
-we have a few things in common--I like going off the rails as much as the next gal, but it's going to get boring quick if we don't have (some) mutual interests
The two of us