49Canterbury, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
I've spent some time on this site and read a bunch of stuff. I am unique, as any of the guys (or girls here). I am very good at giving and receiving. I am attentive, a good friend and listener. I thought of myself to be quite reserved and private person, but coming here proved me wrong. Most of all, I'd like to think that I am open to new experiences (within boundaries of normal behaviour and interactions). I can be bored with long chats, and boring I guess (reciprocally), but I love intelligent people and conversation.

I am loyal, bright, and kind
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to live with myself, waste time on the Internet(not so much now), exercise, walk outdoors (although winter weather gets on my nerves- not so much so now), taking care of my family and working on my independence.
I’m really good at
Listening, sharing (can be selfish, though), conforming (working to eliminate that), caring, thinking through, compromising, attracting, annoying myself (not so much others), tennis.
The first things people usually notice about me
my face, eyes, figure, presence (well, at least one of two of those)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Reading material varies, medical stuff and psychology as professional interests, fiction depending on the mood, classics, new novels (romantic or other nature). I sometimes leave books unfinished or jump to the end before its due. I love my ethnic authors; Pavic, Ivo Andric and Hjebjanovic Djurovic. I was last impressed by The Island by Victoria Hislop. I have read Coelho, Dan Brown (guess attracted to mystery), some Booker Prize winners, can't go on, all in all, whatever takes my fancy, like poetry (don't read much of it though), write some.
Movies by genre prefer futuristic, romantic, unusual, European and again, all kind.
Music love, appreciate as a source of relaxation or exhilaration, Classical, pop, rock, jazz, reggae, not too heavy.
Food favourite is different kinds, new tastes, Italian, seafood, my cuisine.
Six things I could never do without
My mind, my health, my family, fresh air, trust, love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
obvious and not so obvious things, and then it occurs to me...
On a typical Friday night I am
home or not
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The only least private thing I am willing to share is that I don't like tattoos and piercings (in a nonjudgmental way as I don't see the point of it). I also hate intimidation and confrontation.
You should message me if
You have something nice or interesting to say.
I feel like I have grown a bit apart from this profile, don't know why, getting older I guess. Men often comment how down to earth I sound, but I don't see myself that way, I'm too emotional and traditional in views on life and love, which is a good and a bad thing at the same time. What I mean is that I have strong moral principles, which can be conflicting with my desire not to be on my own and to get into a relationship for the sake of it, not saying this to discourage anybody, we all are complex individuals.
The two of us