No, "Hey, you're pretty." is not a good message. If you think I would be fun, you're right. Now give me a couple reasons to think you are fun. Bonus points if one of them is something I say I like on here.
I'm KINKY, that's whips and chains kinky. I love couples....any gender! And people who switch! It's spring, so everything is blooming. Some chances to just play with folks I find hot are awesome. This does not mean that I only play with kinky people. I do only play with confident people who can communicate clearly.
**no bareback** Don't bother if that's what you're looking for.
I've been in Seattle about seven years now with my Dear Husband and our 2 munchkins, 17 and 19.Hubby has a primary and they have a one year old. I have a new lover who is a wonderful, deep excitement and touches me in places I haven't been.
I volunteer with the Center for Sex Positive Culture, where I run events occasionally, including Myself! ~ the masturbation friendly sex party. Their site is thecspc.org
My coaching and teaching site ladywildfire.com and I also work in retail.
I'm looking for a "Yes, you can!" kind of partner who isn't afraid to tell everything straight-up and still manages to be an encouraging force in the world. I am tall, often quiet, kinky and BUSY. I am interested in intentional community, growing things, kimchi and travel.
Contemplating, exploring too many possibilities. Missing playing sax. Working out a couple of times a week, and still failing to do my yoga, even though I am a happier and more successful person when I do it.
Managing retreat weekends like Aphrodite Temples.
Touch & Coaching. See LadyWildfire.com
Coming up with fabulous ways to do things. Discovering the silly mistakes in your system. Figuring out the best ways to share information and organizing stuff (not my stuff). Bliss, sometimes. Making lasagna. I have been known to bake bread with 28 cups of flour regularly. I love to plant flowers and I garden as well.
I'm pretty good at remaining calm, thank goodness!
My eyes. I'm really good at looking normal.
If being in one place is really better than being a gypsy. The three years we spent on the road full-time got way old for me, but there are moments when I would almost go back.
My family life is Complex. Hubby and I celebrate one night a week, Tyler is here a few times most weeks. And, in really good weeks, I manage to see my girlfriend, too. Still, there could be for an open minded, sex geek who loves to talk about it, read about it, study it and more. If you think sex is like driving, you learned how to do it 20 years ago and you're a master...we're not a good fit.
I am in serious need of a bdsm top who is geeky about it, or a switch who can top regularly. These conversations must start in an equal place, dominance in a relationship is earned, a great gift.
To sail, kayak, or have sushi downtown.
If you'd like to bring me some dark chocolate.
You are intrigued by being lit on fire. (Yes, I'm serious.)
(but, really, use my e-mail firstname.lastname@example.org ...please! and do include your OKC name)