37Old Orchard Beach, United States
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My self-summary
I will first admit that I am terrible at these things...

Ok, so I am a trans guy in the early stages of transition. I do wish that they had a trans or FTM designation in the gender section, oh well.

I am constantly driven to create. I almost always have something in my hands, either making or unmaking. I weld, knit, paint, sculpt... I am still looking for the one that will really inspire me. I work well with my hands, and working in new mediums is one of my great joys in life.

I am pagan, but it does not consume my life, though I do feel strongly about my beliefs.

I am deeply kinky, though I do enjoy vanilla sex with both men and women, I need a person that I am involved with to at least be comfortable with kink in general even if they are not themselves interested in it.

I am poly, and in married to a wonderful guy, who I love dearly, who is also poly. We both have had partners outside and inside of our relationship.

I am sure that there are other things that I will think of later and add then...
What I’m doing with my life
I work in customer service, which brings me in contact with a lot of really interesting people. It also exposes me to a great deal of ass-hattery.

I craft a great deal, and am always either working on something or thinking about what I am going to do next. I am always happiest when I am creating something.
I’m really good at
Learning new things. I always have something new that I am working on, either a craft or a project, something that keeps me from staring off into space uselessly...
The first things people usually notice about me
Usually one of the first things people notice about me is my sense of humor. I have a dry wit, as it were, and I tend to comment on what is going on around me. That said I try not to be one of those running commentary guys who everyone wants to strangle...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love most kinds of music, but I LOVE Nick Cave. I also adore most of the Romantic operas, Puccini, Verdi, Wagner. I can take or leave Mozart and Brahms...

Books, I tend to stay in the Science Fiction and Fantasy genre, as I tend to find the authors in that field play with a broader view of the world than straight fiction.

I love bad horror and sci-fi movies. Anything with plot hole that you can drive a truck through is good by me. My favorite right now is "Mega-Shark vs. Giant Octopus," 'cause anything with Debbie Gibson and Lorenzo Lammas and a continuity fail in the first 30 secs of the film is good by me! I like good movies too, but that goes without saying...

I love to cook. I love good food, and I have expensive taste, so that usually leaves me learning to make it on my own. I have learned a good deal about making Thai and other southeast Asian food, but I also love to bake.
Six things I could never do without
Music, 'cause silence can be scary. And I always have something running in my head, so being able to control the mental soundtrack is vital.

Books, stories are what make living here ok, and not a long grinding decay of... wow, no issues there...

Chosen Family, I need the feeling that there are people out there who know me in all (well, most) of my foibles.

Good food, there really is nothing like sitting down at a really good restaurant with good friends and having a perfect meal.

Craft and Art, and while they are different, I love them both. If I lost the ability to create tomorrow I don't know what I would do.

Friends, I need the people that I feel close to. I don't always talk to them everyday, though I am getting better about that, but I do need them.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The Zombie Apocalypse... and whatever project I am working on. And then some more zombies.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with my friends, watching bad movies and eating good kettle corn.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It seems telling that I keep leaving this field blank.
You should message me if
You want to know more, or if you love BAD movies, 'cause I can talk about them forever.
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