A little about me you ask? Well, I am married in a stable open relationship with SeekBeauty. I am a very open minded person, I embraced the motto Knowledge is power. I learned to question everything and I will, I have in the past couple of years changed some views that I held my entire life because they did not hold up to scrutiny. I do not expect the same from others but it is a bonus.
I care about mankind. I am an INFP in the Myers/Briggs personality test, which is the Idealist Healer. I am a feminist (the word mankind bugged me a little) although that is not the only reason I consider myself a feminist. I believe in the betterment of society as a whole. That caring for others is more important than personal wealth and power, might be why I don't have a lot, but I have enough. I do care very deeply for my family, friends and those around me. I like to know what people think, I value honesty and discourse. I am a very lighthearted person, I love to laugh and enjoy life.
I notice some people like disclaimers so here is one. Just because I am in an open relationship doesn't mean I am looking for: a meaningless relationship, I am looking for women who are secure with themselves and enjoy great conversation, exploring the intricacies of life.
If you send me a message with a question or comment I am not going to bother you for the rest of your life. I will respond to questions and criticisms. I will most definitely ask questions back, I love learning about people. I will not take interest as an invitation for lewd advances. I am an intelligent, mature and open minded adult who knows how to respect boundaries. I am secure in who I am. I also would like to hear from you, I am here to connect with people.
I am great at coming up with ideas. If you need a box thought out of, I'm your man.
I am great at listening, if you need someone to talk to. One of the best compliments I ever received was from a woman who said I had big ears, and she didn't mean elephantine.
Books usually depend on the current whim: Biographies, Classics, Fantasy, SciFi, College Text(Sometimes for fun depending on the subject), The Dresden Files.
Magazines: Popular Science, Popular Mechanic, National Geographic.
Movies: The invention of lying, Happy-Go_lucky, Finding Neverland, Pans Labyrinth, Band of Brothers, Zombieland, Dr Horrible's sing a long blog, Firefly, The Wire, The Hogfather, Going Postal, The Great Dictator, Twilight Samurai.
Music: Lots and mood dependent.
Food: Flavorful, something I have never tried before. I am currently adding a lot of fresh vegetables into our diet, usually with my bamboo steamer.
Art: I love the Pre-Raphaelites, especially Sir Edward Burne-Jones
-You are smart, I find intelligence more attractive than a hot body (although I am not opposed to hot bodies)
-you don't mind talking about thoughts and feelings.
-can make me think.
-you can teach me some tricks in the kitchen.
-you want to ask me a question