35Pittsburgh, United States
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My self-summary
Looking for friends as much as dating, I'm freshly back to the burgh and don't know a soul outside of work which is kinda bleh.

I have kids and am very protective of them (and I've had some bad experiences dating as a single parent) so I'm not going to want to shack up or anything like that, and I'm most certainly *not* shopping for a replacement mommy figure or anything like that.

However, I'm very up for new friends or relaxed (mutually independent) dating. I'm also open to (and experienced with) poly arrangements and other non-standard situations. Or just friends. I could use some friends. Will you be my friend? :)

I sometimes make art professionally and for fun but mostly earn my wage by making web systems.

I enjoy exploring the edge between science and spirituality and discussions to that end.
What I’m doing with my life
Software Engineer / Systems Architect by trade, sometimes graphic designer and UI expert. Amateur photographer and maker of bad electronic noise rock.
I’m really good at
Making gorgeous web systems, making bad music, growing peppers.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
all the grandmasters of science fiction and fantasy.

all kinds of bad tv (especially crime procedurals for some reason)

oh and i love craft IPA. all the IPA.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Technology, gnosticism, revolution, history, dreaming of a zombie apocalypse
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You should message me if
You like to talk about interesting things. Famous battles and historical figures, undeveloped technology, entheogenic adventures, or anything else that makes me think.

Or you want to get lunch on the strip and hang out.

Or you have similar kinks, and want to hang out.

Or best, all of the above!
The two of us