28Tallahassee, United States
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My self-summary
I am super optimistic and I love people, but that also means I don't do well around negative people. They drain my energy too quickly and I don't have patience for them.

I really love to travel and I want to do more exploring. I've done a little bit of travel but I'm always interested in finding new, cool places.

I love knitting, sewing, spinning my own yarn and doing really anything textile related. A lot of my income goes into these projects, as does a lot of my time.

Something that I have been reluctant to say on this profile for a while is that I am a cancer survivor. I have had cancer 2 times in the last 9 years. This simultaneously has so much and so little to do with my personality that I never used to include it, but it's nice to get it out there before I met people. (Please do not message me only to talk about cancer unless you have a new and original thought. "I once knew somebody who had cancer, and they died," does not constitute a new and original thought.)

I am not looking for anything monogamous right now, so if you are then I am not the woman for you.

I also have a baby who is a huge and important part of my life. I'm not looking for help raising my baby, but I do have a baby which freaks some people out.
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying the hell out of it. I am busy being myself, and I am thrilled to do so. Sometimes I am astonished by how lucky I am and how beautiful and fulfilled my life feels. I wish that everyone could understand that feeling.

Right now I am working toward a goal of finding a talent that I can market toward people who go to Renaissance festivals, so I can live a nomadic life from festival to festival, never settling down, but still supporting myself. (Apologies for the run-on sentence, I was excited.)

As for what I am doing professionally, I really dislike that most Americans define themselves by what they do instead of who they are.

I might go back to school one day. That day might be sooner than later.
I’m really good at
Helping people to see the positives in a situation. Like I already said, I am an optimist. I really believe the point of life is to be happy. I like to make sure the people closest to me are happy, healthy, and intellectually fulfilled if possible.

I enjoy cooking; I don't know if I am extremely good at it.

I need to put this out there just because I felt that it needed to be said: I am a great kisser. If you are not a good kisser, I will leave. If I leave halfway through a date but fairly soon after we start kissing it is because you are a bad kisser, not a boring date. We are all adults here and we should have learned to kiss when we were teenagers. Go to my pictures, look at my lips, and if you think you cannot handle them, don't message me.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and how much I am enjoying myself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Thai food, Indian food, sushi, soup, French food, German food, vegetarian and vegan goodness. I've recently been on a Korean food kick. My favorite food is eggs.

My favorite movie is the Princess Bride

Current favorite musician is probably Florence + the Machine

I'm a little obsessed with Hamilton right now.

I live Disney movies; I'll probably never stop.

I love Harry Potter, Jane Austen, Shakespeare, and I'm sure I few others. I wish I read more in general. Suggest an audio book for me!
Six things I could never do without
Nail Polish
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How interconnected the world is. This is an idea that continues to astonish me the more I live. Everything is related and somehow either directly or indirectly affects everything else. It's very fascinating.

Feminism, specifically ecofeminism, but really any type of feminism and the misconceptions that come with it (like that I am a man hater, which I am not).


New recipes to cook

Whether one is to say tased or tasered in reference to someone using a TASER against someone else.

Why anyone would ever want to use a TASER against someone else.

Religion and spirituality or a lack thereof. I do not consider myself religious, but I am definitely spiritual.

How to smash patriarchy.

My next cosplay idea.
On a typical Friday night I am
There really is no typical in my life, but lately I have taken to Friday night karaoke (I am one of those weird people who likes to sing in public, be on stage, or even give speeches).

I also like to go to the first Friday art walk whenever I remember about it.

There is also quite a bit of enjoyment that I find in just staying home on a Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I pick my nose...a lot. I get quite a bit of pleasure out of it too. I don't just pick it to get rid of the stuff that is up there, but because I genuinely enjoy it.

(This is not a joke. Some people have mentioned how funny it is that I put this on here to scare people away. I'm on here to meet people, not to scare them away. This really is the most private thing I was willing to admit to a bunch of strangers.)
You should message me if
You proofread your messages before you hit send.

You want to explore the world and have crazy adventures with someone vivacious.

You are intrigued by non-monogamy.

You like to karaoke and just need someone to do it with consistently.

You need a new brunch friend.

You're starting up a new RPG campaign or a board game night.
The two of us