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My self-summary
Life is short. Let's have some fun! There are many people out there that live their lives in quiet desperation; I am NOT one of those people, and I don't hang with them, either. "Socially adventurous" is a good descriptor. Polyamory, social justice, sustainability, natural building - so much richness to know! I have no time for ridiculous crap like shopping and conspicuous consumption. Depth and emotional intimacy are what I offer - and what I seek.
I'm on the upswing from a challenging low point in my health, which really knocked me for a loop. I've always been stocky, but very physically active and STRONG. Thyroid cancer rather knocked the wind out of my sails, and my stamina is finally improving. Sustaining my new (and somewhat lower) energy level continues to be a balancing act I am still practicing. Physical touch is even more important to me now - and that's saying something!
Please be local to Seattle - I'm not interested in never-ending conversation with someone I'm not likely to meet. In the flesh is where it's at for me.
What I’m doing with my life
Spending quality time with my beloved husband PFTigerstripes in our open marriage - gardening - teaching permaculture - living voluntary simplicity. Stretching my mind. Trying not to be totally depressed by the current state of most of American culture.
I’m really good at
Sex. Massage. Stimulating intellectual conversation. Listening. Talking. Cooking. Enjoying physical pleasures of all kinds.
The first things people usually notice about me
My enthusiasm. My energy. My smile. My curves. My very hairy legs. My quick mind.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I demand a lot from my art (most of the time, anyway). Chewy stuff that I won't feel I wasted my time with. Haven't watched tv for 15+ years; watched all of X Files and that was it. Currently enjoying Sherlock (OMG!) via the internet. Most Terry Gilliam stuff, AbFab, Black Adder, Kurosawa, Miyazaki (especially Kiki's Delivery Service), quirky indy flicks, bluegrass, blues, Yo-yo Ma, klezmer/gypsy/fusion, arabian mixes, classic torch songs by artists who can actually sing, books on homestead skills and post-consumer life (currently reading Sandor Katz's Art of Fermentation - yes!). Food includes almost all ethnic cuisine, wheat-free, scratch cooking and bbq anything. It doesn't need to be fancy (although that rocks occasionally) - it just needs to taste good and not have a bunch of chemicals in it. I like there to be FOOD in my food.
Six things I could never do without
Coffee with Jersey 1/2 & 1/2 and honey. Big cocks. Long, wet kisses that travel down several paths at once. Sun-warmed italian prune plums. Lipstick. Being loved fiercely.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to save enough money to buy a couple of acres and an old house in the Skagit Valley or on Vashon Island. How to find joy regularly. How to minimize driving. How to live lightly. How to quit taking things so seriously. If I can find a few dynamite [poly] peeps that live within 10 miles of me. Where are all the sexy, compelling women in south Seattle? Why are most bi girls so shy sexually? Why do lesbians dislike bi women?
On a typical Friday night I am
Chillin with my Honey, watching an online video or reading an online article, making a big batch of organic popcorn (using lard I rendered, natch), seeing what kind of interesting stuff my friends have posted links to on FB. Researching natural building methods on permies.com.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I'm really tired of consoling men who can't get or keep it up. And what's this bullshit about older men saying they don't want to wear condoms?! Get with the program, guys!
You should message me if
You are confident, skilled, intelligent, sensually voracious and sexually adventurous. Not necessarily kinky, but that can be fun, too. Women & men; come one, come all! Perhaps you're a girl that wants to be shared with PFTigerstripes and me? Perhaps I will get you all to myself? Poly is almost a must; I'm really tired of breaking in previously monogamous lovers. Girls: be dynamic. Boys: be interesting.
The two of us