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My self-summary
"I mean what I say and I say what I mean." "Words to live by are just words unless you live by them." "He who thinks he knows everything knows nothing, and he who knows nothing has a chance to learn everything." These are some of my favorite mottos and I try to live by them every day.

I've lived in San Diego my entire life and absolutely enjoy every minute of it! I'm very extroverted and spend a lot of time out with friends. I love meeting new people and having good conversations that could possibly lead to more. No winky face. I'm being serious.

I'm very passionate about the arts in general, music, cooking, and human connection. I'm a very open minded person and am extremely loyal to friends and people I'm with.

So you guys know from the start I'm polyamorous which means I want to have multiple meaningful/sexual relationships. That does not mean I cheat, everyone knows what everyone else is doing. That's just simple safety. It has always felt right to me.

If you enjoy my profile and want to get to know me please message me. I am not going to pay to find out who likes me.
What I’m doing with my life
I am going to college to become a psychologist and play music and cook for fun.
I’m really good at
Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu
The first things people usually notice about me
I have no idea. I'm going to guess hair or eyes...shoulders? You tell me.... or that i am living?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This is probably a little weird, but my favorite book to be honest has to be "CIA Cookbook." It's about as thick as a Webster's Dictionary and very straight to the point! There's no open to interpretation "saute your onions until it looks ____." It's super straightforward, and sums the recipe up in about four steps... which is fantastic by the way.

Favorite movie? Constantly changing. I like comedies and movies that involve a lot of introspection about who we are. Perfect example is "Watchman."

I absolutely love Latin music for its complexity and groove. I can lose myself in it for hours. I'm a jazz musician, and I love playing jazz, listening to jazz, talking about jazz... you get the idea. :) As far as other genres go, if it's got a good beat I'll listen to it.

Food - to keep it short, I love exploring places of different cultures and trying new food. I like all types. My two main favorites are Italian and Southern. And French. :)
Six things I could never do without
Human contact and connection

Good food - the kind that speaks to your soul

Music that evokes emotion and pulls you out of a bad day

Probably the internet. Let's not lie. There's only a few out there who say that they could live without the internet and I know you're lying.

Working out or doing some sort of physical activity

Laughing and joking around.

Air... I could not live without that.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
why humans do what they do. I have a fascination with the human mind and am taking psychology classes to see what else I can learn.
On a typical Friday night I am
almost always hanging out with someone. We might go to a bar, hang out next to the beach, go wander a random park...

I love talking and having a good time with friends, and surround myself with them as much as I can!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ask me in person. :)
You should message me if
You want to have an intellectual conversation about life, food or music.

If you are genuinely interested, message me, it will be the best way to know.
The two of us