For personality, I come from nuclear family and one single child of my family.
I am here(okcupid) to get communication as much as. Because, face to face communication, as the introduce yourself exchanging feelings getting closeness, is a little bit difficult in Northern Europe.
As my personal relation history, I had some relationship , which suffered me a lot and looking for true destination of my half of heart... However, I can not expect long term relationship immediately to not get dissapointment. Although I know the cultural behavour of girls in different European countries, I have hope that I have mutual feelings with somebody
Regarding to this site, I have been member since 2007 and have not met anyone from here. Of course, I have get reply as 1/100 people which I sent messages
As I have looked some of profiles, I would have some reactions.
- For short term relationship, although some people interpret as "one stand attraction", I think , it's kind of faith and "error and trial". Therefore, I think we can not choose we should live short or long term relationship. In this point, some people opposes " penpalling". If you are confident yourself in crashing wrong person, just meet , have fun and leave him as one stand night. But, if people really want to long term relationship, as not crash wrong people, it is necessary to give time to communicate with him to know more aspect of him , such as what are his mistakes, lacknesses. It is impossible to know person in his first sentences.
- The term of "playing games", which some profiles used the term, changes to person to person as my interpretation is " intrustable person, who received respect and compromises from her pair, do not values her pair.
- Friendship and add your network is important while we are leaving era when we can't construct a friendship easilly and some sorts of intrustable people.
In summarize, I still hope to someone who gives my real value. Finally, I would use this site for communication and meet with someone as the second step which would be flexible term after first communication step. ( Thanks for read my long description)
Just a little request: I am looking for English translation of one word "Sevgi". If you translate, as " love", you are wrong because it is temporary passion. If you translate as " Like", it is like a tendency on somebody without knowing very well. I am just looking for just one word which covers sacrifice, compassionate, trust, loyalty and companionship Just pm me if you know.
Books: I read some mixed articles about history, music, interested places and some new things which is necessary for my life. I could not have time and eyes to read thick books in free time from my study.
Movies: I would like to watch fun movies, romantic and drama.
Food: My favorites are Italian and Mediterranean Cuisines. But , I like to eat also Swedish meals.
- my family and friends
- sense of humour
- good air and of course sun
- free time
- intimacy, moral support and trust
- You're not come from Sweden or Western Europe, you don't think to use a guy to settle in Europe . Because I am not neither Swedish citizen nor Europe,
- You're not a gold digger and career centered person,
- You're not self centered person a lot,
- You don't have purpose to fight, agress and exercise power on me,
- If you don't ask religious question such as " are you catholics" or "are you muslim" which are no sense more than polarization and categorization.
- You're kind and also honest person,
- You know how you value on your pair...