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My self-summary
This needs to be updated...soon I swear...

Self-summaries are hard..I'm fairly introspective and am always realizing new things about myself..often things that conflict with earlier bouts of self analysis... I am looking to find happiness and enjoyment wherever I can. I have never figured out exactly the purpose of life, perhaps there isn't, beyond live and learn.(I mean..I know the answer is 42..but what's the question?)
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to make a life on my own terms. (I did mention that I was TRYING right?)
I'm a crafter, photographer(self-trained but more or less making a living at it). I'm an (ex) stage manager (& it's theatre, not theater ok?)
I’m really good at
Dry wit, intelligent conversation, finding used bookstores in strange cities, solving problems(just not my own), drinking Irish Whiskey, and enjoying a good book.
The first things people usually notice about me
My dry wit, my good nature or, ya know, the fact that I have a shaved head
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Starship Troopers, Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, Callahan's CrossTime Saloon, many, many, more...I'm always with a book, generally SciFi
Movies: Casablanca, Original Star Wars Trilogy, Grosse Point Blank, & a few hundred more..I always wanted to work at a movie theater...
TV Shows: Sports Night, Scrubs, Fringe, anything by Joss Whedon or Aaron Sorkin..I love well written stories..
Music: Me First and the Gimme Gimmes, REM, U2, The Great Train Robbery(band from Buffalo-OUTSTANDING!), and quite a bit more
Food: Rare steak, Irish Whiskey, pumpkin seeds(at Halloween I get LOTS of pumpkins-just to cook seeds), cherries, & many, many other things...(many of which I cook myself..I'm a pretty good cook)
Six things I could never do without
My cats
Close friends
Intelligent conversation
Artistic inspiration
And a dry remark
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The meaning of life, the value of deep relationships and how I fit in to both...quickly followed by thoughts of something much more mundane(ie. bills, whiskey, sex, books, etc.)
On a typical Friday night I am
No typical...I may be at an art opening, at a bar with friends, or on my couch watching TV or reading, or prepping for a craft show, or any number of other things..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I'm a fairly open book in person with people I like.
Ok, here is something for the masses.. I'm terribly excited that I came up as Spike on the Buffy Personality Test.(OK so I'm a bit of a geek ;-) )
One more...I just made a basic math error in a word problem that made me feel quite silly...
You should message me if
You find me interesting, you find me different or you are either of those yourself.
If you can hold a intelligent conversation about art..or science, books..or movies, politics..or philosophy, sex...or love. Basically if you can or want to talk intelligently about almost any interests are broad. (Jack of all trades and all that)
Note: I just excised a geeky, scifi book type of bonus point quiz...not because its not part of me or that I wouldn't like someone who shared those interests...but because what one likes does not define who one is. If we have different interests but respect each other and like one another that's more than enough. (Quiz still available upon request ;-) )

FYI. I'm not A-list. I can't see who "likes" me or "rates me highly". Message me instead!
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