56Grand Rapids, United States
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My self-summary
**** oh please, do I have to do this again? I am a pretty simple happy person, pretty straight forward and realistic and REAL..what you see is what you get. God, family, friends... all important to me. I like to be around people who are joyful, positive, proactive, active(off the couch and moving). I couldn't tell you the latest sitcoms or reality shows, and don't care about politics or the news a lot either...too busy with my own life. I do like sports, and will watch them, but more like doing them, some with my kids and friends. I'm more girl next door(flip flops, sneakers, hoodies) than barbie(heels , jewelry, accessories), but can clean up OK. I value more what is on the inside than the outside, although how you look and take care of yourself does say something about what is on the inside. Finding a real man(not a poser) would make my day. I've learned to spot the players, fakers, and stalkers, so don't waste your time on me. Also, no rebounders or "almost divorced men"...go get over it and heal before subjecting yourself and others to the stuff you are going through. Just sayin...
What I’m doing with my life
working, playing, sports, family, church, enjoying the long extended summer, reading,learning,
I’m really good at
guess I'm pretty good at different sports, especially Martial Arts...been at it a while. I like to cook, read, sew, swim, run, ride my bikes, hike, typing silly essays on the computer, playing with kids and grandson, teaching M/A, especially traditional karate weapons.
The first things people usually notice about me
My unusual eye color, my smile(so I am told), my faith and joy, my stubbornness and outspokenness , especially when I see wrongdoing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books...the Bible, Boundaries, Spontaneous Healing, Purpose Driven Life, Erroneous Zones. Movies...Kill Bill, Star Man, Avengers. Like almost all music, just not shrieky screaming, negative lyrics. Like most foods, and variety, not very fussy, but like to eat and feed my family healthy.
Six things I could never do without
God, Jesus Christ and all his teachings and love for us...the reason for my healing and joy and peace. My family(my Mom is my rock and my favorite person, and have 5 brothers who are all awesome, all with SIL that I love also, my kids...lessons they have taught me in unconditional love and sacrifice, along with just being fun to have around, extended family and adopted family,), my photos, which I have meticulously taken, saved, filed and cherished (MY MEMORIES) since I was a small child saving to buy my first camera. My (sometimes sick and inappropriate) sense of humor....don't go there, but gets me through an awful lot, especially to be able to laugh at myself. and, my Bue Bears, who are my legacy of my sister's love for me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
God, the present, the future(not too much time), my family and friends, thankfulness for what I have, what to make for
On a typical Friday night I am
hopefully not going to be here looking at the computer, especially a dating site.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
hahaha....don't think so!
You should message me if
you like what I say, and you can talk nice and respectful, like if your momma was in the room.(at first, anyway). Roger that?
The two of us